Theres this party i have to go to this week.. and these two guys who i am interested in. the first guy..ive liked for oooh bout ten years.. and the other guy..well it was just a relief to finally get my mind on someone else after such a long time. but heres my problem: at the party.. what do i do? they both show interest.. but the long-term guy.. well..lets just say that we've tried it all before..and nothing worked. and the new one.. nothing can really work anyway. my problem doesnt go beyond the party. what i need to know is what to do during it.
2006-07-31 18:30:47 · 9 answers · asked by oy vey 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
so basically you're nervous about what each one will think if they see you hanging around the other one, right? who cares! life isn't always neat and tidy. be nice to both of them, enjoy yourself, don't get cornered with either one. you are there to enjoy yourself, not to please others. if you are all mature about it, no ones' feelings will get hurt. and if they do, you couldn't really have prevented it anyway. we women often get pinned as bitches for stepping on a guy's ego. sometimes it happens.. so be it. just be yourself and if they have issues with that, that is their problem, not yours. the sooner you trust you are a nice person, the sooner these types of "dilemmas" won't worry you as much.
2006-07-31 19:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by aj 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It is unclear what this truthfully is all about
you have clearly stated that nothing can really be for either of these people yet you insist on cornering them both for a waste everyone's time festival ???
Pick someone else at the party that is completely different --that has a promise of something---anything--and go that route--be polite and nice to the other two guys but don't be playing this maybe baby game with these two guys--like I said ---you've esentially said that nothing can be for either of them so why all the how should I be garbage ???
2006-08-01 01:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
during the party teamup with a couple of other girls and have a good time with them. If either of these gys comes up to you simply introduce them to the girls you are with ahd then after a moment excuse yourself to goto the bathroom or to get a drink.
2006-08-01 04:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do like the other ding bat said and pick the one with the most money but have sex with both at the same time first. If your going to choose a man like a prostitute you might as well have sex with him like one too.....
2006-08-01 01:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by Charles Dobson Focus on the Fam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the party --have a good time--that's what parties are for...you can't plan ahead what's going to happen with these 2 guys so just go with it and see what happens.
2006-08-01 01:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt like the devil at their expense and have the time of your life.
2006-08-01 03:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sonie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to follow your heart it will never lead you in the wrong way.
2006-08-01 01:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mary M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose to be friends with both. the first guy......you already know where thats going.
2006-08-01 01:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick the one with the most money
2006-08-01 01:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by hatingmsn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋