how can I believe in love again?

Answer 1

You need to stop thinking that love is the answer to your unhappiness. You are the answer to your unhappiness, and believe it or not, you are already complete and whole as a person can be. Finding another person won't make you any more than you already are. Start looking to yourself for affirmation of your good character, don't rely on others to do that for you, and you'll be content even if you are alone or not.

Answer 2

It is not necessary as it will happen as time heals you. Just believe in tomorrow, one day at a time. Create something to hope for that is positive, like a day at the beach or something to look forward to. Nothing I can say will cause you to believe in love again. You have to look to yourself. You know that whatever hurt you have that it is not the end of the world, how could it be? Half of all this hurt is having to deal with people, having to tells them that it is over, like that. It is embarrassing, although when you really look at it, why should it be? When asked, how's "X?" Answer truthfully and in a way that says yo don't want to talk about it, like "I'm no longer seeing him, and it's not something I like to talk about." The sun will continue to come up, and there will someday be someone else, or maybe a series of someone Else's. Never revisit this hurtful person, because they have betrayed your love once, and may do so again. They have shown you that they are not worthy of someone as special as you. Take care of yourself first for a while. You deserve it!

Answer 3

That is a hard question, espicially since I've just recently been dumped by my fiance who I was with for 7 years. But I all I know is that I can't be bitter towards all men and that not all men are the *** he was. If I ever want another relationship again I will have to understand that not all men are like him and that it's not fair to go into a relationship with a wall up when the person you are dating has never done anything to hurt you and deserves a no holds barred chance.

Answer 4

Guys ask the same question, believe it or not. You just gotta take a risk because the reward is well worth it. In order to gain love, you must make the sacrifice, even if you may get hurt. You may get hurt many times, but you only need to find true love once to succeed.

Answer 5

You don't have to believe in love again. Find the person who makes you laugh, makes you feel beautiful no matter how you think you look and doesn't mind that you have bad days. Find that person and Love will believe in you. ;-)

Answer 6

Let the walls down, and let love in, when you see it. Stop LOOKING for Mr Right, and eventually, he will find you.

Also, believe in yourself. Try getting some new hobbies, and going to school. A lot can be said about having high self esteem, and an interesting mind. Its very attractive. =)

Answer 7

Not need to believe in love - try to live in love - that's life.

Answer 8

Well that is hard to do when you have been hurt..but keep your heart open..its better to love and lose then never love again..just remind yourself how it feels when you find a new love.

Answer 9

Learn tolove yourself again first and than you will be able to love someone else again,don't be afraid of being hurt again or you will miss out on many happy times that you could of had.

Answer 10

You just have to take it very slow, take it one day at a time, go see some of your friends, do things you like to do, help some senior citizens, they would love to have a nice young Lady around them, and you will also feel good helping others