my hubby doesnt show me any attention anymore. We never cuddle, kiss or even barely talk anymore. He is always glued to the damn interent and hi svideo games. What could i do to get him interested in me again? Or should i just not even bother and leave his ***?
2006-07-31 18:00:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he knows your upset, why do you have to make the effort all the time. Have a serious talk with him and if he doesn't listen or change, time to move on. You deserve to be happy and loved.
2006-07-31 18:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by yooper guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to try something else to get him off the web and computer. How about a night our or a weekend trip together to a place with neither web or TV?
If it's really bad, you may have to try counseling, and if you can't affort that, try some ideas from some of the top relationship authors like John Gray. There's also a program for couples to work on thier relationships that the only fee is a donation. It's called Retrovais (french for new beginning). I think it's still around. NOt sure of the spelling.
Just some ideas, but first I would try to divert his attention away from the tube and the computer. Make plans to go someplace outdoors.
Or, you can start getting busy with your own friends, and he will wonder why your not sitting around begging him for attn. watch how fast his attitude changes.
Best of luck to you. My ex did the same stuff.
2006-08-01 01:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by farmhouse168 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Chivalry says, "You have to find something to turn his head away from the games and on you. First, light some candles in the bedroom. Put on something nice (lingerie). While he's playing the game, walk in the room. Tell him to save his game, no questions asked. Remember, keep a smile on your face. When he saves, go down on him for a few seconds, but no more than a minute. Then get up and let him know that he has to follow you to get the rest of it. When he enters the bedroom, put it on him. Simple as that. Do some more oral. Ride him. Put it on him. Afterward, hold him. Ask him if he enjoyed it. If he says yes, and of course he will, tell him that you did as well, and you look forward to many more moments like those. At this point it's about salvaging your romance. It's not about pointing fingers. It's about being the bigger person. Good luck! The decision is always yours."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-01 16:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's using the internet to flirt, or meet women, there's hope. I recommend that you rent a room. Don't tell him ahead of time, just rent it. Take him away for the night. Make reservations at a restaurant, and perhaps get flowers delivered to HIM. After dinner, get a FEW drinks. Then, back in your room, try talking to him- he WILL know something is up, so he'll expect bitching. DON'T. Tell him how much you've been missing his company, and how you feel about his being engrossed in the video and internet. If he truly cares, he won't dismiss your conserns. If he does, THEN leave his ***
2006-08-01 15:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've put on weight, havent you? Yeah I know, its probably "baby weight" and you still look good "for your age". The sex is the same old boring **** because you have no sense of adventure, and/or rarely have sex at all.
Try watching P orn online with him(for ideas) or playing video games for sexual favors (winner gets oral). Try something other than looking to get out the front door. Show some accountability for your part in the marriage being flat.
2006-08-01 01:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat as you. I took up a class and got my zest back! I feel better about myself! But my husband never changed with me. I never get any attention either. I go out with my friends and they make me happy, But I still come home to same old bore.
2006-08-01 01:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by dtammyus♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will never understand a man that ignores his woman. That's incomprehensible to me. Try talking first, or maybe surprise him with some lingerie or a strip tease, maybe answer a fantasy of his. Counseling is another alternative. Sounds like you're not happy (familiar) and you need to weigh your options. Good luck.
2006-08-01 09:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best revenge is for you to spend your time on the internet too. Give him a dose of his own medicine. You ought to try those video games too.
You can also start getting beauty treatments and improve yourself. Let him be jealous.
2006-08-01 02:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by mylenekeane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn his chair around and start kissing his belly, you will have his attention in no time.
2006-08-01 02:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by Robin i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-01 01:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋