My boyfriends sister in law is always saying things about me when im not around alot of the things she says are not true or are non of her business to even comment on. Its really starting to bother me cause she never says these things when im around and she wont even know two sides of the story but will make comments or insult me to my boyfriend and his parents.... I really want to say something to her but i dont wanna seem like the crazy lady who over reacts but it is really starting to get to me. Would it be wrong of me to confront her????????
2006-07-31 17:59:59 · 3 answers · asked by Candace B 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your boyfriend need to confront her, not you. Its his family he needs to deal with this
2006-07-31 18:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its completely fine for you to talk to her. She shouldn't be talking about you behind her back, she should have respect for you even if she dislikes you, for her brothers sake. She is most likely jealous or feels as if you are taking her brother away from her. This is sometimes a hard thing for a sibling to handle. They feel as if their brothers girlfriend is some how taking their place. I think you should talk to her, and ask her if she has some sort of problem with you, and how you can resolve it, to make things better for everyone.
2006-08-01 01:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, get some self-esteem training or read books and when you feel stronger and more sure of your self CONFRONT bad behavior where ever it is.
2006-08-01 01:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by jimrich 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋