ok...well ive been going out with this guy for almost two months....its nothing really serious cuz we're only 16...so sometimes he can be mean to me and i tell him that it really hurts and he ALWAYS says (it was a joke) hes always telling me he ahs to start treating me better...but never really does...he says he cares about me and sometimes he can be really nice to me..and i told him it seems like hes only after 1 thing...to get in my pants....but he says hes not supposabley he really cares for me...i talked to his best friend and he said "yeah it seems like hes using u..al he talks about is u and him doing something...i talked to my best friend and i told her i think im going to break up with hima nd she told mw i should because it seems like im being used....
Im sorry everyone but i really dont know if i should leave this guy..it seems like he cares about me but maybe he doesnt...should i leave him???
2006-07-31 17:57:46 · 6 answers · asked by mzshorty... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i forgot to say i REALLY care about this guy....i dont know why but i do..
2006-07-31 18:00:23 · update #1
Honey, you really cares about him then why do you say it's nothing really serious? I mean, when you say that it almost sounds like you're just fooling around and your relationship is purely physical.
One advice I can give you is that you confirm your feelings to him and confirm his feelings for you.
Ask it out to his face whether he really loves him or only after your virginity. Urge him to tell the truth (Use lie-detector if necessary, LOL). Once you get, you're the one who have to decide what to do. Not his best friends, not your best friends, but YOU.
Good luck on deciding.
2006-07-31 18:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by laidbacktionist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really too young to be worried about some guy like this. Just a little advice to lead you through life and the rest of your relationships...when you have to ask yourself if you should stay with him and you don't always like the way he treats you...that should tell you right there that you aren't as happy as you want to be and that you should leave him.
2006-08-01 01:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by sweetc14_28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must move on!!!!!! Listen to your best friend they see things that you don't. I once was in an abusive relationship and it started out with the "only kidding" when he hurt my feelings. It went on to be much serious. I was way older than you are now and I should of known better, but... Trust me kiddo, leave him!
There are good guys out there and you have so much ahead of you. Get your education, hang out with your friends, life will fall into place. It gets better. :)
2006-08-01 02:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should leave him. I know it sucks now but you are 16 so you have plenty of life (and boyfriends) ahead of you. If you're not ready for sex then don't have sex. It's that simple.
Breaking up always suck but it's better to do it before you get screwed over.
2006-08-01 01:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by Chucky2334d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime friend also can be bf or gf in your case i feel you in love with him from your story you are very caring about him..
As now you are in the midle wheather to leave him or not.
my opinion just follow your sin
2006-08-01 01:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by mam1199 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
study and learn about self-esteem and then you'll know what to do about others treating you badly - YOU WON'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!
2006-08-01 01:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋