we need 101reasons to love some1, but only 1 to hate someone. why??? this life is too short to fight.? YOU DO NOT EVEN KNOW WHATS GONNA HAPPEN THE VERY NEXT SECOND???
these days, religion is for creating differences and not to unite the people. any suggestions or comments are welcomed.
2006-07-31 17:47:06 · 21 answers · asked by madhur 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
that is a very true statement... its a lot easier to not like someone than to love them.. totally true. good point
2006-07-31 17:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by koo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like everyone likes your questions (but i am in it for the points)
taking a closer look at your question - it is actually very sad to know that you need 101 reasons to love some1 , the problem really is not 'how many reasons' rather what is LOVE.
if u need 101 reason (than buy a dog)
in fact, the person who needs the 'love' is expecting 100 and 1 more reason to be loved
but only just UNO-numero, to hate.
this is getting complicating but i think you made something clear - we should find 101 reasons before we HATE and just ONE reason to love
(and what is love) ... i think that should be on everyone's mind (i hope)
(unfortunately - you have a link question and maybe it is best not to 'connect' love and religion ....than again, there are 1001 reasons for creating differences and really None to unite the people (we are all made differently).
suggestion : settle the LOVE issue and you get the unity.
2006-08-08 17:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by Martin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good question. I used too think that a lot of people were too immature to get along with others but now I'm not sure. Now i think some people may be just plain evil and look for reason's to hate other people.Have you noticed it's the same way at work.You can do a good job at work for 6 months and your boss never says anything, then you make 1 mistake and he's all over your butt!
2006-08-08 16:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by jim h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your statement is sad but true. Yeah, some people need to find a bunch of reasons to love each other when there is only one real reason, becaus God said so. Hate is so easy to do. Just tick somebody off one good time, and you're on their "list." I do have to disagree with you on religion though. I only believe there is one true religion. That is Christianity. It does unite; denominations are what separate, but you can't judge if somebody wants to worship in a different way than you do.
2006-07-31 17:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wear a white dress that's look nice. Suddenly a small black spot ink or mud dot on it.. Its not cleaned now.. It's dirt... Like wise when you love some one deeply and suddenly a fault or wrong impression came with that person your relationship or trust with him or her won't be same as before. That is first and main reason to start hate that person. We can't accept the truth about which is against our expectation. That hardness make us to start hate that person. this is human psychology.
2006-08-05 08:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by mswathi1025 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PKlambda123....loved your answer. I try to replace religion with faith. Faith in a God who created all of us out of love. I feel that hating someone who chooses to worship Him in any way is a horrible sin. As Jews, Christians, and Muslims, we all believe in the same God. Nothing can justify in my mind, bringing harm or accusing someone of being less than what God created. We all believe that we are created in God's image. Well, if we are destroying each other, what and who are we really trying to destroy?
2006-08-08 13:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you not feel that kitchen knife is a very useful thing. Without it, smooth functioning of kitchen is not possible.
But when this knife goes to wrong hands, it can damage and even kill you.
Same way, the undertones/spirit of religion is quite positive. When its steering goes to wrong hands, it IS misused for creating rift in society for selfish motives.
"Instead of cursing darkness all around, one should enlighten a lamp" your enlightening lamp will encourage others to repeat same and message of love can be spread.
What is happening is happening since times immemorial. Right thinking persons like you should strive hard always to continue spreading messages of love ( not bothering for other negative and pessimistic factors of society).
Frankly speaking, Madhur Yadav, Your goal of life (i.e. LOVE ) is commendable. "LOVE ME FOR A REASON.............. LET THE REASON BE LOVE." Society requires persons like you.
BESTOF LUCK
2006-08-04 05:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by PK LAMBA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't like being yelled at in any religion. Life is too short to put up with that abuse. However, I love your point, and do concur.
2006-07-31 17:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus Said Love one another.... So I think if we all did this regardless of religious belief then we would all be ok. I think that Einstien said it best when her said " The World is not a dangerous place because of those who do harm but because of those who see
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2006-08-08 12:56:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not a panacea for the world's ills. To love that which is evil is to love evil itself. Evil exists not in the absence of love but in its presence. This duality of existence points the way to a higher power.
2006-08-08 11:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
human minds tend to be negatively focused. that is why it needs reason upon reason to affirm what is positive and just one downfall/weakness to wipe all affirmations away. seeing good in something and acknowledging it is a choice. seeing bad of another and agreeing with it is an influence. humans are also easily influenced (dont deny).
2006-08-08 05:12:17 · answer #11 · answered by nelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋