we been 2gether for about 3 mnths now
2006-07-31 17:42:50 · 24 answers · asked by Kearra405 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
nope. to young. i'm 16, been with my bf for 5 months and he and i agree, not for a very long time
Hunny you ar enot ready, just by asking. are you ready to handle the consequenses in case something goes wrong? what if the condome breaks...what if he has and STD? after you have sex you should keep up with gyno vsits to make you you are okay down there.
Yous hould not have sex until marraige or until you are old enough and responcible enough to deal with the consequenses if something goes wrong. if you wait, it will make it that much sweeter and if he really loves you and you really love him, you don't need sex to make your relationship work! seeing 3 of my friends get pregnant has greatly influenced my desicion, aswell as personal beliefe.
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2006-07-31 17:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by Miss. Advice 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
It is ultimately your choice; I am not sure that asking strangers online is the best way to go, Keara. If there is an adult that you respect and trust, consider talking to them first. I know that you probably want to be intimate with your boyfriend, but consider all the consequences first. Thirteen is, in my opinion, an early age to be considering sex. I am almost 30 and I wish I had saved my 'v-card' for someone who was really meaningful, instead of giving it up because it's what 'everyone is doing'. Best of luck in your decision. It will stay with you for the rest of your life.
2006-07-31 17:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, i think that you should be FOR SURE that you love this boy. You are 13, losing your virginity is a really BIG DEAL especially to girls. If you lose it you should really do it with someone that you really care about and who cares about YOU TOO! This is something that you will remember for the rest of your life. Make it a good memory. I had sex with my boyfriend when i was 15. I REALLY love him and he loves me too! I know that if we happen not to be together forever, at least i can look back and not regret my decision. So really think about it before you do it.
2006-07-31 17:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Kit-Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months may be a long time to you but with a life expectancy of 80 odd years 3 months is barely a drop in the bucket of time.
If you have to ask then the obvious answer is no. If in doubt don't do it.
If you are truly thirteen, you are way too young to be considering such things.
2006-07-31 17:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by StatIdiot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost mine at 13 to my boyfriend who i completely loved at the time. 10 years later I still love him but as a friend. It was a mistake as I was too young to understand what love was and although at the time it was incredible real and intense as I grew older I realized it wasn't love. If this boy is pressuring you to have sex when your not comfortable with the idea, think to yourself how much does he love me. If you ask him to wait until your ready, what will he say. If you're doing it to keep your relationship then don't even think about it. If he loves you then he will wait. Good luck only you can make this decision.
2006-07-31 18:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by kalihas_mum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex at your age is not a good idea. Honey you have your whole life ahead of you and I would hate to see you do something that you regret so early in life. It is hard enough for adults to know when they are to have sex and with whom. Best advice for you? wait until you are married. Make that your gift to him on your wedding night. He will love you for it and you will love yourself. Think about this long and hard and do the right thing.
2006-07-31 18:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, 3 months is not enough to define Love. Try make it 8 years and see if youre both still in Love.Once you lose your V, you will never find it again.
Ernest.
2006-07-31 17:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont love him! you are 13 and you dont know what love is. trust me... i thought i loved my boyfriend when i was your age but now that i truly knwo what love is i know it was nothing more then infatuation. and 13 is way too young to loose your virginity and esspecially after only 3 months. i lost mine at 16 and i look back and think that is still too young to loose it. go ahead, mess around with him as much as you want. make out, fondling, oral... w/e you two would like but i recomend you keep you "v-card" for when you know what real love is.
2006-07-31 17:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by sarahdancer123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! You're far to young to deal with the ramifictions of sex...I don't want to be like your mother but you don't have enough life experience and be a kid, trust me adulthood is no fun...
But, if you are going to have sex, get on the pill and use condoms...you don't want to have a baby...
2006-07-31 17:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no wait till like 5 or 6 months see if he`s still around
2006-07-31 17:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋