For the ladies: My new girlfriend only lets me have missionary? How can I get her to be more adventurous?

Answer 1

Ask her, not strangers. We don't know your girlfriend.

Answer 2

Maybe she's just still uncomfortable with you. Having sex with someone new is kind of weird at times, and maybe she wants to get used to you by doing only one position.

Ask her what her favorite position other than missionary is. Tell her that when she's ready you'd love to try that with her because you really want to please her.

Ask her what the real problem is - is she self conscious about the way she looks from behind? That may be the reason. I know sometimes I don't like certain positions because I feel fat, haha. Of course, don't ASK her if she's self conscious, just ask her why she doesn't like any other positions. If you approach this subject gently, she'll most likely explain it

Good luck!

Answer 3

Get married before you have any more sex.

That said, once you are married, ask her what new position SHE would like to try, and let her lead. Encourage her to lead. let her take your hands and guide them. She will be nervous at first, but tell her that she is doing it just right.

Answer 4

I think it depends on how long she's been your girlfriend.
Maybe that's how she likes it and if adventurous is not
what she wants, and you do, then rethink your relationship, this could be a problem later on if you don't agree. Talk to her and just ask her, it could save you alot of problems later on.

Answer 5

easy one friend just do this, when she is close or around get your friend to call u on the cell and act like u talking to him then mention sex and bring up loud enough for her to hear say yeah i heard doggystyle is the best too!! or plan b buy a cosmo sex issue and leave it lying around and mabe shell read it