Why does my husband want sex 24-7? My Husband gets to goes to bed around 9 and I don't get to get in bed till aound midnight or later. Then around 3 or 4 he is wakeing me up for sex and then I am haveing to get up at 5:30...HELLO..This is how it is,, He works alot., I'll give him that.. But me I am a stay at home mom of a 14 year old and a 4 year old ALL DAY LONG....ALL NIGHT LONG. I don't get to clock out at 5 from my job and go home at sit in front of the TV. How can I get him to understand that I love him but when I go to bed at night ,,that the only thing on my mind is SLEEP. and not sex...HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-31 17:16:34 · 10 answers · asked by ebay_junky2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well why isn't sex with your hubby on your mind he obviously finds you desirable and while sex does require some effort it can't be that tiring to you geezz... and if it has to be that way then you two need to work out a booty call schedule as to when is an appropriate time for your hubby to make a booty call and when will you be answering booty calls it sonds like you just don't want to so if this is a marrige where is the comprimise ???? Next thing you know you'll be asking us I thinkl my hubby is cheating what should I do and the answer was do him!!! do him a lot do him so much he will cringe when he sees you his wennie willl scream nooooooooooo not again!!! that's what you should do.
2006-07-31 17:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by Monte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get to bed earlier. i wish my husband wanted it 24-7 because i do and i am at home with a 3 and 7 yr old all day and i don't get to bed until 11 or later and up early. Be thankful that he is still very attracted to you and wants to have it all the time.
2006-08-01 02:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by spoiledrotten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a schedule, as unromantic as that sounds. If he knows he will be getting sex for sure at a certain time, maybe he wont wake you up at 3 in the morning. Have a date night once a week and arrange for a babbysitter and let him know that he is sure to get some at least on this night.
2006-07-31 17:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is normal. just like half of the guys out there. Cut each other a break. Find time to take a nape from time to time so you can get up in the middle of the night for him. But also, he should not expect you to get up every nite. Communicate with him. You are his wife and you should take care of each other. If you don't take care of your husband, you might then be asking questions on here about why is my husband cheating. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-07-31 17:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by krash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont worry its not that big of a problem.Maybe he works a lot and this is way for him to destress.honey no one can keep on having sex 24/7 sooner or later he will get distracted.
try to talk about this and both decide on set days and timings so that both of you will be excited when u do it.
So that along with him u can also destress doing it and making it enjoyable.
2006-07-31 17:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the kids outta the house one night, as soon as he walks through that door at 5 0r 6 jump his bones. When he refuses and says I am too tired (and he will) tell him that is exactly how you feel at 3 am. If he jumps on and takes ya for a spin with no complaints then enjoy your nights sleep!!
2006-07-31 17:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by t31sfd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try waking him up at midnight or 1 am when he is in his deep sleep cycle and have sex with him then.
After a few nights of him not getting the sleep he needs, he'll see how you feel.
Short of that....you may just have to tell him what you told us.
2006-07-31 17:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants it just 2 times a day, thats perfectly normal,
may be you need to spice up your sex life a bit, and live up the pleasure.
2006-07-31 17:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by who is this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to bed earlier.
2006-07-31 17:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still finds you hot! and think now...
most men become aroused in there sleep or after they have rested, tell him you're tired sometimes and then other times you go for it!
2006-07-31 17:22:18 · answer #10 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋