NO RUDE ANSWERS! my boyfriend just broke up with me today and i literally feel like dying. Hes like everything i have, hes the reason my life doesnt suck. I cant go find someone else because its gonna be a looooooong time before i get over him. And my friends cant help because I keep thinking about him and i just cry. Help me please!!! :'(
2006-07-31 17:14:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Thanks for the help everyone!!!
2006-07-31 17:22:07 · update #1
honestly, it will take a long time before you get over him. Im still not completely over my ex and we broke up about 8 months ago. We were together for 4 and a half years and today would have been five! I think about her every day and dream about her every night. Dont try to rush and find somebody else cause no matter who you find right now, all your gonna do is compare to your ex. Dont depend on anybody to make you happy, learn to be happy by yourself first then if you ever go through this again, you'll be a little stronger next time! I know this is the worst feeling you ever felt but dont worry, you wont die! what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger! If you ever need or feel like talking,when you feel you cant talk to no one else, e mail me at: forthanight_07@yahoo.com. I know i dont know you but im here for you, when i went through this i didnt have anybody to talk to. You can get through this girl, take care!
2006-07-31 17:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm truly sorry, I've been there before. I know you feel like your world has come to an end but surround yourself with friends and family who love you. Cry as much as you need too. You obviously need to grieve and that is perfectly natural but there is light at the end of the tunnel...Trust me!
Time will heal your pain. Oh and ...Just don't contact him no matter how hard it is! The right guy is out there and each day that goes by is another day closer to meeting the man who will love you unconditionally and never leave you if his life depended on it! Isn't that worth the wait! Hang in there hun! If you need to talk you can send a message my way.
2006-07-31 17:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by LNZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a girl's day out with all your best girlfriends& just spend a day at the mall or by the pool or even the beach and just have fun ask them to show you the best time of your life and trust me you'll live even without your boyfriend because having friends is so much better because friendship with last forever while havin a boyfriend will always end sooner or later
2006-07-31 17:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always takes time, but time heals all ills. You will find there are many others out there who are much better then him anyway. He doesn't deserve you anyway. You much to special for him. Have a nice day and cheer up there's a brighter day coming!
2006-07-31 17:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Kewl__Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok just try and forget, put away anything that reminds u of him even if its really hard for u, spend some time with family and go out with friends, try and find someone diffrent and in the long run youll soon relize that he probably wasnt even worth it
2006-07-31 17:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
going through the same thing we just got to realize everything happens for a reason and everything will work itself out. Good Luck
2006-07-31 17:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by xxxlostsocalgirlxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i felt exactly the same a little bit ago. trust me it will get better quicker than you think. go find somebody else and youll forget all about them. write a song too. that helped me get some emotions out.
2006-07-31 18:13:15 · answer #7 · answered by shadowcitya7x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about the possitive things in life and try to get over it maybe destiny has a better guy 4 u.
2006-07-31 17:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just got to try to get over it because when you are crying he is partying and not thinking about you. but i know it will take some time to get over him.
2006-07-31 17:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by manuelt5576 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋