I have a friend. We'll call her S. She has a friend, and we'll call her R. And my friend, S just told me thats she's bisexual, and she's going out with R. They're both girls ( duh ), so yeah. And I feel shocked. Completely unexpected. And I knew S for about 3 years, and she knows R about 4 years, I think. Well anyways, S is my friend right?! And I don't want to be mean, and disrespect her life, you know? She knows i'm bi. So don't think that she doesn't know, cuz she does know ( lol ). I just-I just don't know what to do. I was sappose to call her like 5 minutes ago, but I'm just to shocked about that going out thing. So help me, please. ;_________;
2006-07-31 17:05:45 · 7 answers · asked by Helena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't like R, I don't even know her. But I know that she's one of S's best friends. :P
Or now, its more than friends.
2006-07-31 17:38:20 · update #1
Join 'em and have a 3some.
2006-07-31 17:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jake Tunes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she values your friendship, and she doesn't want to jeopardize it for what be one lousy lay.
Before deciding that you want to jump her bones, think seriously about the above. Is this a gamble you want to take?
If the answer is yes, tell her you need To discuss something with her. Meet in a nice quiet place, and first assure her that you value her friendship, and no matter what she answers it will not change that. Do NOT pressure her, and make sure you give her enough emotional space, so that she doesn't get intimidated.
2006-08-01 00:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by profdave99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...if S and R are happy, just keep your nose out of it and be happy for them. Otherwise you'll ruin your friendship with S and her relationship and friendship with R. And how does you being bi play in all this? Can you rephrase the question so I can understand the problem? It sounds like you're just jealous to me.
2006-08-01 00:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.... talk it out with her. talk about your shock. ultimately, she is your friend, and she did tell you about this, right? so, you should be able to live with it.... but, talk to her about it
2006-08-01 00:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by mdrieber00013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A GOOD FRIEND WILL COME BAIL YOU OUT OF JAIL.........
A TRUE FRIEND WILL BE SITTING WITH YOU SAYING "D@MN WE F*CKED UP!"
A TRUE FRIEND WILL BE THERE FOR YOU NO MATTER WHAT!!
2006-08-01 00:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by brat71825 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? i don't know but some 1 else will so wate.
2006-08-01 00:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by Mexicool187 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i dont get what the question is.........do u like one of them or something???? add more details please and i'll try again later
ok.....i still dont see what the question is......
2006-08-01 00:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋