He has 2 kids who have problems getting out on their own and one moves out and the other moves in. His daughter just moved out and his son moved in today. The son is 27 yrs old and didnt think his 1 bedroom was going to be big enough for his girlfriend and the baby she is expecting in January, so they moved in with dad and impose on him instead of arranging to get something bigger. His 25 tr old daughter just mooched off of him with her whole family for 8 months. She, her husband and 2 little kids just moved out when the weather got warm. The daughter who just moved out came over and left a note on his wall for him to pay her for doing his dishes equivalent to 1 hour of work. She lived there all winter for free. She should be sudsing up his whole house for free. I think it is disqusting. He should put a revolving door in his house. Why cant he tell them to start growing up and fend for themselves?. Is it just me?
2006-07-31 17:04:14 · 4 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the son just moved 25 miles away from his job to live with his dad. He has no drivers license because of a dui.
My boyfriend divorced when the kids were in there adolescent years and re married. He seems to go over board on everything for them. Gives them credit cards with high credit limits on them and they max them out so they go to collections. pays all of their cell phone bills on the family plan. Buys them cars. He is not that rich. Really. He is heavily in debt because of these kids.
2006-07-31 17:17:30 · update #1
some parents are just to naive to see that their childeren have amounted to nothing...thay cant bear to see the fact that their child or childeren are growing up jus like they did and they feel pity so they figure if they help them then their child will like them or forgive them..now to bring husbands and wives and childeren in...well i think then its time to move on...especially if u only in a one bedroom..theirs no respect for any party then
2006-07-31 17:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by fukincrazy69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he have custody of them when they were growing up? maybe he feels as if he needs to compensate for lost time. and besides, they're his kids. sometimes its really hard for him to say no to them. but i understand. its not just you, it can be frustrating, but you have to tell him that you feel that they do not appreciate what he is doing for them. and the least they could do is help out around the house.
2006-08-01 00:10:58 · answer #2 · answered by NAQ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a parent should always help there kids when they need it, but there comes a time when the parent has to say "am I helping or hindering my child" If ya help to much they get dependant, if ya don't help enough they get resentful.........whats a parent to do?!?!
2006-08-01 00:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by Charlotte F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he enjoys being a mat for them to step on.
2006-08-01 00:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋