ive been on and off with this guy for abut 4 months and i moved we just got back together and i hardly ever see him what should i do?
2006-07-31 17:04:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
break up with him, and move on with your life. it may be hard, but its for the best.... because, you guys are either gonna end up cheating on each other, or holding each other back.. .it would be for the best, as much as you might not wanna hear that.
2006-07-31 17:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by mdrieber00013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in several long distance relationships that, also, went off and on. I know how you might feel. I was in love with my boyfriend but it does take a lot out of you both phisicaly and emotionally. I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend. I hated doing that but I really needed to be with someone I could see more often and that coulsd offer me more support. It's up to you nad your ability to deal but even though it seems hard, I recommend doing the samething. You could also, depending on jobs lifestyle and such, move, he or you, id you love him enough to keep the relationship going you may need to make some compromises.
Good Luck Whatever you chose
2006-08-01 00:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by joeyjen8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since its on and off and its only been four months maybe you should seek someone new? If you really have feelings for him set up a date and talk to hm about how you feel and see whats been going on with him and try making time for eachother whenever you can. Good luck, hope things work out =)
2006-08-01 00:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how Strong is your love for him and his for you? do you trust him and him you. Its hard when you are not together he or you will find other friends to fill the gap and then that's when it will happen. There you will find out that you can live without him at your side. little by little he will so fade the same for him you to will fade. In Spanish it said (amor de lejos es amor de pendejos.) in other words (love from afar is love for fools) GOOD LUCK wish you well.
2006-08-01 00:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love each other it doesnt matter if your love one is far away. My bf has been working overseas for about a year now, and our relationship's never been on and off. It really depends on your feelings for each other you see....besides there are lots of ways where you and your bf can talk to one another, thanks to technology =)
2006-08-01 01:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by sundaesoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋