if my ex boyfriend wanna go back out with.but i scared caues he might do what he did that made us break up the first time!!!!!.....what is it i should do?????
2006-07-31 16:35:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's an ex for a reason. If you don't know if you can trust him, then you can't trust him. Send him on his merry way.
2006-07-31 16:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by c_w_b_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. You should know in your gut the answer. Your head may make you not see the real answer because you are smart to analyze the situation. But I am willing to bet you already know what you should do and if in the end it is a mistake at least you won't have to wonder what might have been. That is the worst. Good Luck.
2006-07-31 16:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be very tempting, particularly on lonely nights, to look up your ex or accept an invitation from your ex for a rekindle. The more you fall back on your old ways, the harder it will be to truly move on. Don't fall for the short term satisfaction of a night out or easy hook-up at the expense of stirring up all the hurt from the breakup.
2006-07-31 16:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by christina7060 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have no idea what he did before... did he fart? Did he hit you? Did he cheat on you? Did he ask you to marry him?
Whatever it was there is very little chance he has changed unless it has been around 10 years since you last went out. (He will still probably fart in 10 years.)
You have a choice: live with and tolerate the behavior or move on. You can not change him.
2006-07-31 16:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by S R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you have a convo about what was wrong the first time around, and how you guys are gunna work to make sure it won't occur again. If you guys don't talk about this, you'll most likely not get over abt it from the past, or you'll have the same problem again.
Nonetheless, good luck =]
2006-07-31 16:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by iD2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur afraid of it then don't do it. but if u do tell him what u want and that the games or what ever he did to break up has to stop. or he is out that door lol. read more answers first before u pick. but go with ur heart and remember sometimes its hard to change the guy if he isn't willing to change for himself. good luck
2006-07-31 16:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by karen s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take him back.. if he does it once believe me there will be a 2nd time especially since ur thinking of taking him back.. move on, that's why he is called a ex..
sometimes it just ain't smart or safe to go backwards...
2006-07-31 16:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stop skipping English and grammar classes! Second what ever you feel like doing is the answer to that. No one here on yahoo! answers can tell you what is best when they don't even know your situation!
2006-07-31 16:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by flyingbumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem in life is that women always think that the men will change for the better---they won't. Who they are is who they are. If he did something that made you break up with him...he'll do it again. He will be who he is, and if who he is isn't for you...you don't need him. Hope this helps.
2006-07-31 16:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by music_junkie_55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are built on trust. If your boyfriend hasn't assured you enough that he wouldn't do it again, then he hasn't given you the tools to trust him. You must be able to know in your heart that you can trust him. If you don,t trust 100%, then you don't go back!!!
2006-07-31 16:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by jbathletics 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on you if you want to accept him back...if you're not scared to get hurt and you really love the guy why not give him a 2nd chance? If you're not prepared to accept him yet then dont force yourself to do so...time will say if you're really for each other or not. =)
2006-07-31 16:43:10 · answer #11 · answered by sundaesoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋