ive asked this 3x...ok, so my boyfriend of 2 years broke up w/ me about 2 & a half months ago & I am still upset about it. Some days I hate him & other days I miss him & want him back. When he broke up w/ me he said @ first it was because I was possessive and then he told me he just wanted to be single for awhile. Well two weeks later he starts dating a girl who is 15 (he is 17) & she lives 3 hours away. And they only had met once before they started dating. I don't know what to do anymore. Ive been depressed for awhile & it feels like I will never get over it. Then school is going to start in less then a month and Im really scared to see him because I haven't seen him all summer and I loved it but Im afraid when I see him @ school Im going to get upset and the progress I had made will be gone. Do you think that his relationship is just a rebound? And he will ever call me again to apologize? I just want some answers but I dont want to talk to him until they break up. What should I do?
2006-07-31 16:28:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
*sigh*
The same thing happened to me... my ex however was honest with me and said he just didnt feel the same about me... that really hurt and it was 4 months ago... he's interested in someone new, and I hope he doesnt hurt her too.
The thing is, he's a sweetheart, but he doesnt know what he wants, and the nice girls who want a nice guy (a.k.a. him) don't know that. I've accepted that he's going to like her and it's ok, because we're still friends and we hang out and stuff, and time heals... but it seems like forever.
You will hate him and miss him... there's no getting around that. And it hurts like the dickens... but there's nothing to be done about it; have a good cry, that often helps speed things along.
I wish I had better news for you dear.
2006-07-31 16:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by the_quetzal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the bird to open sky.
If it comes back it is yours
If it does not come back it WAS never yours.
Take decisions on logic instead of emotions - from brain instead of heart. It will not only benefit you but many of your loved ones.
Even in case you are unable to reconcile to position - gain time - defer the matter - but do not let yourself be emotionally blackmailed by situation.
BEST OF LUCK
2006-08-04 11:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by PK LAMBA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on and try to find the right one if u date some1 to get back at ur ex it's going to make u feel bad,the person u dating,and prob ur ex
2006-07-31 23:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by Harmony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him it may be hard but it doesn't seem like he is interested in you anymore
2006-07-31 23:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by J E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him!
2006-07-31 23:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
breakups hurt!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-31 23:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by finkksta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋