i just today found out today that i am pregnant. the thing is the only partner i have been with in the last four months happens to be my best friends boyfriend. what should i do?
2006-07-31 16:22:50 · 12 answers · asked by deansheena 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
wow..thats a tough one. I would suggest just going to the father of the child, and telling him first, because regardless of your best friend, who i would assum is not going to be too happy about this. You need to think about this baby now, your going to have to make sure what you want to keep this baby(please think long and hard because that child growing in you, remember its a little of you, and you and the father created that). How old are you? I hope your ready for this. I was in shock..total shock(im 18, going to be 19) and last friday was my dr. app. and even my dr could tell i was shocked when she told me. If you need someone to talk to and be here to listen then i could be here for you. Im unemployed and can only clean the house so much a day!
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2006-07-31 16:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by xxlilmekristyrae32xx 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
everything happens for a reason.
Tell the father of the child and then tell his girlfriend. They are evidently not meant to be together anyway, just be careful if you decide to get serious with this man. Once a cheater always a cheater!
Good luck cooks, its not an easy situation. But it is not the most horrible thing to ever happen!
2006-08-01 00:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by tay_jen1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can not believe u did that to your best friend i have thought about it but believe me nevr acted on it. well look everything in the long run will be ok. u seriously need to talk to the guy before u even worry about your friend & u 2 need to figure something out first. but that one person was right that baby is apart of u & trust me youd love it to pieces. i have a 19 mo. old & im expecting again im completely alone without a man & believe me im freakn out. but like i said everthing will be ok. for awhile it might not seem like it but itll all fall into place. your friend will have to get over it because thats your baby & theres not crap she can do about it now huh? hang in there
2006-07-31 16:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by gracy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...if I were you I would tell the baby's father. Then your gonna have to tell your best friend what you have done. You will never be able to live with yourself knowing you kept such a secret from your best friend. Do you think this guy will want to be involved with the baby's life? Either way you need to tell your friend what you have done. Good Luck!
2006-07-31 16:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm pretty sure you just lost your best friend.
You just need to suck it up and deal with the situation you created.
Talk to the guy, see where he's at with this and make the best decision for the baby.
Best of luck and I hope things turn out OK.
2006-07-31 16:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa the Pooh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to this guy snd see how he feels about the situation. that is a difficult decision to make, but the father should have some input. how ready are you to have a child? reguardless of what anyone says, ultimately it is still you decision. i wish you weren't in such a sticky situation
2006-07-31 16:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oops. I dare say she wont be your best friend anymore, and the boyfriend is going to have to be responsible for the child regardless.
2006-07-31 16:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by Strange question... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, not your best friend anymore> that was a horrible thing to do! But now that you messed that one up, you need to face the consequences. MAN OH MAN, do i feel sorry for you.
2006-07-31 16:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy, then tell your friend, and whatever you do keep your baby don't get an abortion because babies or gifts from god and a true blessing!
2006-07-31 17:10:55 · answer #9 · answered by Ebony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooooppps...........Yeah I'd say you had a problem....... Your going to have to tell her and him. It is going to ruin your friendship but he needs to know and so does she. If you know for a fact that you are then that is what your going to have to do. Good luck with that one!
2006-07-31 16:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mommy2Be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋