2006-07-31 16:19:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
actually, you can.you like different stuff in both of them.probably,you fill more safety with your husband,and more sexual desire with your boyfriend.
a lot of women do that.
it is normal.
use them...good luck!
2006-07-31 16:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by NICK K 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can love people on different levels, but you can't love them the same way. However, if you are cheating then you lack serious respect for your husband and if you bf doesn't seem to mind you are the kind of person that could do that to someone you are married to, that doesn't say much for his character, either. I would try to be on your own for a while and figure out what makes you tick, instead of trying to find yourself with the help of other people that are just going to end up getting hurt due to your immature actions. I don't mean to be harsh, I am just telling you from experience and the after effects are still felt many years later for all parties involved.
2006-07-31 23:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your have history with your husband. He is safe. Your boyfriend is new and exciting. Those endorghines are rocking.... Give it about a year with your BF and see if you still feel the same. Been there done that. What a big mistake that was
2006-07-31 23:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by pickelsmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do believe that it is possible. there are different kinds of love. my best friend is a guy and i love him and would do anything for him. I dated him in the past and he and my husband are completely different. my husband likes old country music and i like the new age stuff. I love to read and my husband hates reading thinks it's a waste of time. my best friend on the other hand likes all the things that i do and I can always cut lose and have fun with him. they compliment me in different ways and therefore i love both of them it's just that one relationship is sexual and one is not
2006-08-01 02:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't be in love with your husband if u got a boy friend u need to choose which one u want to be with , or get a divorce from your husband
2006-07-31 23:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant be serious,, where are the loyalty to your vows? if you have a boyfriend, then you aren't in love with your husband or vice-versa.. you need to talk to a marriage/family therapist or your husband just needs to divorce you..
2006-07-31 23:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by Deu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were in love you would not have a boyfriend AND husband!!
2006-07-31 23:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you aren't in love with either of them. Maybe lust or obsessed, but not love. If you were truly in love, you would commit yourself to one or the other, not both.
2006-07-31 23:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you have a husband an a boyfriend... be faithfull to one
thats so wrong and hoeish if you doin em both
2006-07-31 23:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by lndsylcs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't unless you posses a very demented sense of what love is.
2006-07-31 23:28:09 · answer #10 · answered by tepidorator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋