a few years ago my best friend killed herself. she hung herself in the bathroom at skool. i knew something was wrong. but i didnt know she would acually kill herself. i think about it all the time. i have even cuz myself a few times. i know its stupid. i just dont know what to do? i dont have any one to talk to about it? and idk its upsetting? i dont cut anymore becuz its dumb. i just dont know? i dont wanna think about it any more cuz it hurts. what can i do?
2006-07-31 15:47:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
it was like 2 years ago. and i know thats like along time ago and i shouldnt be thinking about it but she was such a close friend
2006-07-31 15:59:06 · update #1
yes ill admit "sumtimes"
ill cut if its too bad. its depressing i hate it.
2006-07-31 15:59:45 · update #2
You need to find a counselor you can trust and feel comfortable talking to.
2006-07-31 16:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Uncle killed himself 7 years ago. It is very difficult to deal with. I also have Major Depression. I used to think about killing myself all the time. I tried several times. I got help. You need to ask for help. There alot of good people out there to help you. Don't mess around with feeling this way. Call someone and talk about how you are feeling. If it ever gets to bad call 911. I still struggle, but I got help. So I am still here to enjoy what life has to offer. Get help.
2006-07-31 16:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by Crazy Cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok heres the thing...dont take it out on yourself you had NO way of knowing if she was going to kill herself or not so dont cut your self...its not going to bring her back is it???...no....and its only been two years....a death is hard but a suicide is even harder because you feel you could of saved then when most of the time you couldnt...unless she told you that she was going to kill herself you are not at fault ...the only way to get over it....well cope with it...is to see a terapist or something....but always remeber that its not your fault....no matter what anyone says......also remember that its only been two years...its still fresh in your mind and its tradgic....youll make it through i promise!!
2006-07-31 17:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine how you must feel. This guy that i had talked to like a few times killed himself a few years ago,and even though i didn't know him it still really shook me up. I know that if my best friend killed herself i would be a complete mess. I used to cut myself because i hated my life, but my friends convinced me to talk to a teacher and my parents found out, which at the time sucked but it turned out to be OK after all. now i am happy and i know i can talk to them. if you ever want to talk e-mail me brogie231@yahoo.ca. Hope it works out for you.
2006-07-31 16:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by brogie231 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. you need to go see a counselor or talk to our parents. cuz cutting aint worth it. suicide sure as hell ain't worth it. you really need to talk to someone about this b4 it gets outta hand. or if all that fails, read the Bible. it kinda helped me out when i was in that kind of trouble. and yes i admit i thought about suicide like las year, but i'm over it. try doing the stuff i wrote down and try being wit some close friends
2006-07-31 22:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sorry to hear about your friend. Well it's not ur fault. I have never been through anything like that, but my cousin tried to kill herself alot of times, now we can't really see her( she's out of state). Don't cut yourself anymore. Get a journal and write how you feel to express your anger. It's not your fault.
2006-07-31 16:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you really need to talk to someone. There has to be someone you can trust enough to talk to about things you have on your mind. I've heard that people who cut themselves do it to release emotional pain that they can't hold in anymore. You need to call 911 in your area and have them put you through to a suicide hotline. Every life is worth something, so please get some help. It was very traumatic for you to see your friend hang herself. If you know something was wrong then, maybe you feel guilt for not trying to help her. Please get some help.
2006-07-31 15:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to get some help, if you don't want to go to a consular you need to talk to an adult that you trust. I am glad that you were able to open up on yahoo answers. I want you to know that your friends death WAS NOT YOUR FAULT. What happened, happened so now you are coping. PLEASE STOP cutting yourself that is not healthy. You obviously need to talk to someone so just try to open up for you own sake.I know it's hard but the ONLY way to cope or get past this is to talk to someone about it. So PLEASE take my advice and talk to someone and stop cutting.
2006-07-31 18:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Cc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I kinda feel the same way..but if you want to talk..email me at linigirl92@yahoo.com. We can chat..adn I know a kool website..its not for mental help..its just kool and doesnt maek you feel so lonely in the world...theres more people like you. So just email me!
2006-07-31 15:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by linigirl92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think bout gettig some professional help but if u ever want to talk my e-mail address is shennadog834@yahoo.com
2006-07-31 16:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by Emmie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋