they have a house together he has a business and fears being alone we get along great and I wrote in a letter to him that I care for him . He feels the same way.
2006-07-31 15:36:18 · 4 answers · asked by applepie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I believe that that guy's marriage is on "on the rocks" and any time will be shattered by the factors you mentioned such as the infidelity of the wife and the absence of love in the wife's heart for her husband. Also, because they have no kids to make their marriage bond stronger.
This being the case, I think that it's just but proper for the guy to divorce his wife now that no love exists betweeen him and his wife. Love is the very essence and cause of a successful marriage which is no longer present between them.
The infidelity of the wife alone is a great proof that she did not value her marriage with that guy because if she did, she should have not wronged him that way.
Their marriage, the way I analyzed it, is very unstable and weak. Marriages like theirs do not thrive for long because for a marriage to last, both the husband and the wife should be determined and capable to let it withstand the test of time through the deep love and caring that they have for each other.
That guy should search his heart and soul if he really can let his wife go and move on with his life believing that he deserves someone else better than his wife, who possibly is you. He should not feel guilty if at all he decides to divorce her; ater all, she was the one who initiated moves to make an unsuccessful marriage.
If you believe you and that guy deserve each other, support him all the way and let him know that you will always be there for him no matter what happens. And the most important thing is give him time to weigh things over before he makes his decision so that he will not regret whatever decision he makes.
Good luck to both of yiou.
2006-07-31 15:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wanted to leave he would have. Don't think that he is ever going to leave his wife and don't believe the excuses. He's just looking to have some fun, which is disgusting. And if you know he is married, kids or not, why are you freaking talking to him?? That makes it even worse. Get some morals and run!!
2006-07-31 22:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should consider the source of your information. How do you know his wife has no love for him? How do you know she cheated? Sounds like he's trying to justify starting an affair with you.
2006-07-31 22:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by addictivehabits01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are negoitated and I'd suggest it's time to ask some questions. Is it his story that his wife doesn't love him or hers?
2006-07-31 22:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋