2006-07-31 15:30:39 · 7 answers · asked by n_jevne 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i am 16 and she is 13 we are both really comited to eachother and we would be more suportive than our parents are to us cuz i have 2 jobs and she would be able to take care of the baby
2006-08-01 07:48:04 · update #1
Children need to be raised in a stable home, so don't get her pg until you can promise to be there for the long run! In other words: get married if you want to raise a child together or else don't have the child! The other point is that healthy children come from parents who are making good health decisions BEFORE they get pregnant, no drugs, no alcohol, no smoking, no going to places where others are smoking, take the right vitamins, etc. Your gf should see a doctor (OB-GYN) before getting pregnant.
2006-07-31 15:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by Bernice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Getting pregnant is a traumatic event on a woman's body. Lots of stuff happens; swelling, cravings, fluctuating hormones, major fatigue, headaches and the list goes on.
A couple should be solid in their relationship before they decide to have a baby...cause being pregnant is only fun for three months...in the 2nd trimester!
Be sure she exercises regularly, eats well, drinks alot of water, watches her salt and do kiegel exercises..that will help the labor go smoothly. I have also heard that having sex before labor will get things going too.
Its good to be married and have a good job so you can support your new family...but as long as you are both committed to one another and the baby...you will be fine. :)
Goood luck
2006-07-31 15:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her put her mind at ease and get a thorough exam including a mammogram. If she is high risk (over 35) her obgyn will guide her w/ genetic counseling, etc. Paople have too many horror stories and unintentionally scare people.
2006-07-31 15:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by *Larry P. he's for me* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make an appointment with a gyn/obgyn before getting pregnant plus marry have a good paying job and your own place
2006-07-31 15:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by Moo moo I'm a chicken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK then go see a doctor and marry the girl before you get her pregnant OK.
2006-07-31 15:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like the smart one. I hope she is on the pill.
2006-07-31 15:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll have alot more to worry about if she has your kid. You better run, and don't look back!
2006-07-31 15:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋