i have a lot and i always buy more but i feel like it's not enough
i have to have everything that other people have
how can i stop?
2006-07-31 15:25:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Because, honey, it's addictive.
Just reuse the things you do have and have fun with them.
2006-07-31 15:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Byebye Kitty 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It seems that you are trying to fill an emotional hole in your heart with the things you buy.
There is a good chance this hole comes from the way you are treated by those you care aboue.
Because you do not feel pretty enough, or good enough in some way, you feel the need to make up for it with the stuff.
The only cure is to fill the hole in your heart that is causing the problems. If it is someone that has hurt you, you have to forgive them. If it is a relationship that is broken, you may need to apologize to them too.
Personally when facing an issue like this, I pray to God and He helps me to walk through the problem, the relationships, and ultimately fill the empty spot.
2006-07-31 22:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by thinkingriddles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need counceling to find out what it is in your past that is making you this compulsive in nature...
If you were a "middle child" I can understand that symptom, or, if you were not given enough of love, you are simply trying to placate yourself with materialistic things.
If you were poor, you may be trying to make up for all the things you didnt have as a child, and that is a fault too, as nothing in this World really counts, as your treasures should be stored up in Heaven, and not of this World.
Join a church and see what the LORD has in store for you.. You may be suprised!
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-07-31 22:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a hole in your soul which you are trying to fill up with things. You think one more shiny thing is what will make you happy. It won't. Only God can fill up the whole in your soul. Get in touch with Him. He is available to you. Pray and ask Him for guidance. "Ask and you will find, knock and the door will be opened to Him."
2006-07-31 22:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to buy classics so that you're not always tempted to buy the latest trends, develop your style with a few key pieces. you don't need a brand new outfit every single day.
2006-07-31 22:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by whatwhatwhat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a shop aholic, they have group therapy for that, you are trying to fill up your life with things instead of actually finding out what is wrong and fixing it.
2006-07-31 22:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
human nature
2006-07-31 22:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spiritual fulfillement, hook upt those who don't have enough and you'll realize how transcendant your life is.
2006-07-31 22:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shop hating, and get your own hating going on.
In essence, stop being envious..
2006-07-31 22:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by susan q 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you'll ever want is a little more than you'll ever get!
2006-07-31 22:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by Titzen_Ash_23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋