where i am liveing i am haveing problems getting back and forth to a job and they guy i am with isn't helping me what should i do?
2006-07-31 15:14:13 · 2 answers · asked by tigger8044 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You've already started answering your question by asking it -- he is NOT helping you, he is interfering with you getting to a job -- that is CONTROL and an ABUSIVE relationship.
I think you need to live on your own for a while -- and make a life for yourself, paying your own bills, taking care of your own place, and just finding a job that you like -- and after you find your career or job that you enjoy, then relax -- because this is when you can possibly meet someone with the same interests as you who may not be as controlling as the current guy.
So yes, move out -- and do it quickly. Find someone to help you with the process, and make sure that you do not enable this guy to think that he may still have a chance to control you. Don't answer his calls, do not return his letter, and just be by yourself, and give yourself some time.
2006-07-31 15:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u mean living seriously take a good hard look at your relationship with ur b/f it should be 50/50 in carrying the load if he is indifferent toward your welfare i would seek out different zip code and home to live in
2006-07-31 22:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by aldo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋