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2006-07-31 15:10:45 · 8 answers · asked by yicklesnitzel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
by realizing everyone has opinions, and everyone has things they dislike about certain people. what really matters is what you think about yourself. you will never make everyone like you no matter how hard you try.
2006-07-31 15:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by Robin i 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
saying that you dont give a crap about what people think about you...is a lie
everyone gets their perspective of life from other people, their peers, family, employers etc.
'You wouldnt go to a job interview in jeans, saying i dont give a f*ck what they think...that would be an all out lie.'
when you were little someone probably said, 'oh gosh, youre such a pretty little girl.'
And you subconsciously put that in a mental bag entitled 'things that i am.' And thats okay. Many people look down on people having control over their lives, and to be said frankly, if you care about what people think that is considered to be a losing of control of the self. BUT we fail to realize that we are social creatures who exchange verbal and non-verbal communication at lightning speed at all hours of the day, and that calls for a lose of control. You cant control what others would say to you, or think about you, but you can control how those thoughts affect how you see yourself.
2006-07-31 22:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by SHINY_Embellishment 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By not giving a s***. People will say s*** all through school, work, every part of your life. But if you become insecure about yourself through the eyes of others, then you're going to lose yourself, never succeed in life goals, and your life will be miserable. Not giving a s***, bypasses all that, where no one can get into your way of being happy, feeling energetic, being helpful to others regardless if they don't like it. Just be you.
2006-07-31 22:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by scarsoflife8282 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one, but I had the same problem myself, always worried about what everybody else thought about me. The best thing I did for myself was to put my efforts into what I thought about myself and I know I am a good person so others must know that too by my actions. You have to do what makes you happy not what others want you to do or what you think they want you to do.
2006-07-31 22:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by shyozz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying to please other people, and do and be who you are. many people have this problem and frankly, it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you as long as you are happy with yourself.
if someone doesn't like you then so what, obviously you are not compatible with them. like who you are and you will not be concerned with the little people.
2006-07-31 22:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by mwha1369 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"if you let the oponions of others run your life, you are cheating yourself from your full potential" said by "someone famous"
2006-07-31 22:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by crazibunni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple, you have just 1 life to live. if you live that life trying to please & worry about what people think you really dont have a lif at all. live & be happy, you only have to please the lord.
2006-07-31 22:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be who you want to be and not anyone else. and if they try to change you tell them to go f*ck a goat. (haha)
2006-07-31 22:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋