He's angry because "I didn't answer him correctly" on a phone call. He's pissed off because I supposedly spoke to him with an attitude 3 times today. What can I do? HELP!
2006-07-31 15:08:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you did or didn't answer him correctly? But you could just tell him "I'm Sorry" thats if you want the feud to end, We all have our bad days sometimes you can have the upper hand by being the better person, I think all men have these similarities, They think that we women have attitudes. Here's a thought womens faults are many, Men have only two everything they say and everything they do. Take the Higher Road. Hope it gets better.
2006-07-31 15:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you should find out what the correct answer should have been. I think it is quite silly of him to put you in this position. If there was a "correct" answer to what he was talking about, maybe he shouldn't have expected it from you. We don't have enough info here as to what the calls where about and why you might have had an attitude to begin with. Talk to him and tell him that you are confused and that maybe you were just having a bad day. Who knows, maybe he was having a bad day and was just taking it out on you!
2006-07-31 22:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice i can give is to pick your battles...
you have the power to decide what agitates you, what saddens or angers you...
you should not allow anyone (even your husband) to transfer his emotions onto you...and thats what it seems like he is doing...
maybe he is having a bad day, BUT dont make his bad day at work yours.
Keep a level head, and exit from the situation...until he is ready to stop playing the blame game.
P.S. dont participant in the banter back and forth, it only provides ammo to further prove his point
2006-07-31 22:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by SHINY_Embellishment 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your husband. Cuddle up next to him and say baby I'm sorry. I love you and I didnt mean to sound like I had an attitude today. Then kiss him on the cheek and try and look as cute as possible!
2006-07-31 22:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by scottwatras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't answer him correctly?? you are not his child or in any way subservient to him. You have a right to you opinion. If you feel you were respectful to him as a person (not a superior) then you have nothing to apologize for. He sounds very controlling, I would not stay in that situation if I were you. If he has ever hit you.....even once, trust me he will do it again.
2006-07-31 22:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married to my husband? LOL. I thought they broke the mold when they made mine. I am sorry its not funny but might as well laugh as to cry. Mine is the same way.. honestly. We should email each other and share some war stories. I wish I knew what to say or some advice. however I am in the same boat.
2006-07-31 22:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can dance naked for him or stand your ground and tell him to suck it up. So you spoke with an attitude. I like a girl with some 'tude' going for her.
But that naked dance is still a good idea in any case .... lol '-)
2006-07-31 23:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by michael g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cook his favorite dish, and then while he is eating just give him a BJ, then sit him on the couch, hand him a beer in one hand, the remote in the other hand, and give him another BJ while he is watching the TV, trust me, afterwards he won't remember if he was upset or about what or anything.
if he is still upset for some strange reason then hit him upside the head with a frying pan or something
2006-07-31 22:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You "didn't answer him correctly"?! What, are you a child. You should be free to answer however you like. Sounds like your guy is a real ***! The best thing you can do is to leave him. You deserve better.
2006-07-31 22:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by just4funyall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre allowed to have an attitude. DONT apologize unless you really think you were being rude and not becasue he says you were
2006-07-31 22:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋