I have heard a lot of men say that really pretty women are hard to get to know. I'm sure that some women are arrogant; however, I can't help but wonder, do the girls think they're to good for the men, or do the men think they aren't good enough for the girls?
2006-07-31 15:04:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No I'm not thank you. The problem is that pretty woman are always putting up with morons who think they're good enough for us. I mean the drunks and dopers who are lazy, and looking for a handout from society. These men approach us all the time just because we look good. We are constantly protecting ourselves from these idiots. If I were to meet a respectable man, I may have kind of a stuck-up attitude toward him until I know that he's not one of these nuts who would attack me in a dark alley. I don't mean to give that impression to people, but society has taught me to do so. I'm sorry if you approached me and I didn't know who you were.
2006-07-31 15:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by smommeee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that some pretty women just want all the attention off of them so they can just be like everyone else, but because they are pretty, they naturally stand out.
Men love to look at beauty, and women know it, but pretty women suffer most because of always having to be stared at and never having any real privacy. They can't help it if they were born pretty. That's just the toss of the dice!
I have talked to some pretty women and have some for friends and they all say just about the same thing and that is that they wish that people would not think that they are stuck up and they want to be average like everyone else.
Some feel like the men just want them for their looks and not for just being a person to get to know like the rest of us, that they think and feel as we all do and are no better than the next person.
2006-07-31 16:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Some men who say that have low self-esteem when it comes to pretty women because they (the men) think the pretty women will reject them.
Granted, there are some women who are rude no matter how respectable the approach of men. But there are plenty of pretty women who have been cussed out publicly for refusing to give out their phone number, or turning down a date.
Some pretty women, for good reason, are inaccessible, but that doesn't make them stuck up.
2006-07-31 15:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by divabylaw 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some attractive women aren't stuck up. But some people just don't suit one another. The thing is to approach who you want to . Some women who seem stuck up really aren't . Give it a go.
2006-07-31 15:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by 1K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting point.
I would say it's both. Though it's largely due to stereotypes & cliches attached to genders.
Although, I've known some attractive women who are successful & not necessarily arrogant by nature.
I feel those that are insecure are the ones who're more posh in appearance & they're not even remotely attractive mind you!
2006-07-31 17:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep i totally agree with u there.
Not only they play hard to get, they also mean.
Acting as if they were the last female gene ever standing on this planet!
I have fell for girls like that and trust me on this its not worth it.
But then again, there are a few, maybe just a few that will like totally accept u no matter how pretty they are.
Often, i also find that girls who assume they r pretty, turns out to behave totally stupid! like blonde's for example.
They are always comparing physical attributes against intellectual abilities.
2006-07-31 15:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by MeGotBalls™ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm a man and i don't care, what size she is or what she might wear. i'm not bothered about the fiddly bits just as long as she has decent ...... teeth :/ "any port in a storm" - a man once said just as long as you get them in bed it doesn't matter if she's a brazen hussy as long as you get into her ..... heart ;/ i try to write poem - to make verses rhyme but i keep coming unstuck all of the time you'll have to figure out some better words ..ask around - but don't ask the nerds now, i'm gonna finish my little ode for sweet Mej who wants to be told what my preference are for a woman to be if she loves me - that's good enough for me
2016-03-16 09:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both sexes are programed by natural selection to get the best mate that they can, the females have the final choice so you're not going to get chosen by a beauty if you're a goat, logic.
2006-07-31 15:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all are stuck up.... its just that girls in general, wont easily want to date an ugly looking guy.. no offense as we need to look for inner beauty n stuff... but look at guys... even they wud scan the better looking chicks first and wanna date them.... So just that in the first few attempts it seems that the pretty ones are stuck up, but as you get to know them... they are not all that bad
2006-07-31 15:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that when your overly confident in approaching them, that they try and make themselves look like they're higher quality and push your ego down. Usually you have to try and not act interested and just kind of let em come to you.
2006-07-31 16:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋