My gf and i have been talking about having a kid and we both really really wont one but we arnt shur if we should or not.
2006-07-31 15:04:30 · 31 answers · asked by n_jevne 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
This would be a very serious commitment. Practically speaking, It would not be reversable. You are committed for 18-25 years. It is expensive.
If you are not ready - WAIT !!
2006-07-31 15:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Finish school, get good jobs so that you can afford to raise a child before you have one. Children are a big responsibility, way big! Hugh!! Expensive!!! No more partying with your friends!! Just when you are at the beginning of being able to start to experience life you will be tied down to massive responsibility.
Wait till you are a bit older to make that kind of decision. I could write a book of reasons why you should both wait. For that matter, probably 70 percent of the people on this web site could!
2006-07-31 15:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by diane_b_33594 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-28 14:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have a kid. You dont seem like you're old enough. You cant spell how will you be able to be a mother to a child if you yourself aren't smart enough. You know, you should really utilize the spell check they have on this site.
2006-07-31 15:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by preppy_hunni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you are far to young to have a baby. Besides, how long have you been together? How old are you? Do you have a stable job with a stable income? Babies are NOT cheap, and it wouldn't be fair to he/or she to be born to parents that couldnt support themselves, yet alone another human being. You should go shopping one day and figure up just how much basic stuff is, diapers, formula, clothes, baby wipes, blankets, stroller, etc......
2006-07-31 15:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by nursegirljay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have probibly dreamed on having a big house a nice car and a good life and being happy. right?
well having a baby uses time that u could be working to make money to have nice things. and once u are more financualy stable it will be much better to have a child.
2006-07-31 15:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have a home together ? do you have a jobs? are you ready to give up all your freetime ?having a baby is a lifelong thing you cant just take a break from it when you get to tiard you need to be there for the baby 24/7
2006-07-31 15:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by RACHEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until your both ready for one/married/jobs/a home of your own not trying to sound rude but kids are a lot of money and time consuming good luck with whatever you decide
2006-07-31 15:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Moo moo I'm a chicken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're too unsure.....so, don't. Please do not bring a new life into this world unless you are 100% sure you can support, love, and give every ounce of your energy to this baby. It's not fair to have a child if you aren't positive you want one right now.
2006-07-31 15:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u asked this in the teen or preeteen thingy so if u a teenhell naw tell her she has to wait u arent ready 4 dat and plus u arent married
2006-07-31 15:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by ayana j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋