You need to define what "fat" is. What may be fat to one person may not mean anything to someone else. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And how do you know these girls actually LIKE you in the sense of attraction, infatuation, etc. Were you told by them, a friend, or you're just suspecting?
I'm guessing you're still pretty young, teenager most likely. Peer pressure is tough to deal with. Most young guys would like to see themselves with what is considered a real "catch". That is, a girl all their friends will envy him for. I say give one of these gals a chance & get to know her. Believe me, personality DOES count at some point in the game. If your friends give you crap, be a man & tell them to f*** off. This is a time to step up & think for yourself. At least you have a date while they're sitting at home popping their zits & playing with themselves. ;-)
Having to raise daughters, I've come to understand the insecurities girls feel & deal with. I'm sure the girls realize they're overweight & taking a chance on letting you know how they feel. Don't be a dumbass & purposely hurt their feelings to chase them off. If you're not interested, then say so, but don't be a jerk in the process. Girls talk. If it gets around what an a$$hole you were, it may make it that much harder to get a date with someone you do like. Not to mention you'll have a father(or a brother) looking to exact some revenge when an opportunity presents itself. ;-) If you do find a girl attractive & she's going all out to make herself look nice for you, then compliment her. She may even go to the extent to seriously try to slim down just for Y-O-U. Trust me, stranger things have happened! LOL
I saw a lot of girls who weren't considered attractive in HS at my 10 & 20 year reunions. Many of them turned out to be real knockouts. You wouldn't believe how many of the guys were saying "If I'd only known!". Try to have more vision beyond the next hour. ;-)
Remember, before you go judging someone else's appearance take a REALLY good & honest look at yourself first.
Good luck!
PS: I wouldn't take dating advice from morons who have no clue about relationships or have never even kissed a girl. ;-)
2006-08-01 02:32:59
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answered by chargerrulez 3
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maybe cause ur just attracting the fat girls. Look at the bright side at least there are girls who look at you
2006-07-31 15:04:38
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answered by Alex . 2
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you might be ugly. but if you can suck up some pride and just stick with the fat chick she'll treat you better and she'll never cheat on you. I know that's easier said than done though.
2006-07-31 15:02:59
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answered by Rams N 4
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nobody loves a fat girl, but oh! how a fat girl can love.
they're like mopeds -- they're both fun to ride as long as your friends don't see you
2006-08-01 02:01:42
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answered by watcher 4
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Is there a problem in that?
Otherwise, I think it's partly due to your personality, perhaps? That you probably see these girls way past their physical appearance & accept them for who they truly are.
2006-07-31 16:53:09
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answered by ViRg() 6
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Dude, you are a fat girl magnet.
2006-07-31 15:02:15
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answered by The Big Shot 6
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You probably need to redefine your perception of "fat"
2006-07-31 16:03:20
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answered by shomechely 3
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In this technology enriched society we find ourselves in, there will always be perplexities. Therefore, any answer may or may not meet your expectations. Fat girls have equal rights to like whom they please.
2006-08-03 19:04:31
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answered by Calvin of China, PhD 6
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maybe because you're nice or maybe you try to meet girls at the wrong place. try meeting girls at a bar or club and not at the all you can eat rib night at the old country buffet.
2006-07-31 15:05:51
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answered by b_racer_88 2
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maybe coz ur delicious,, dont take that as an insult instead take that as a compliment that most of them likes you.. you should be thankful for that.
2006-07-31 15:03:20
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answered by - mikeZ 19 - 1
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