My best friend goes to college, so i don't see her often. But on weekends we used go out shopping or to the movies. But lately she always has an excuse for everything. She says she is coming and at the last minute she says she can;t, she doesn't even call 2 say she can't go....she says she forgets... or gives a lame excuse... but which afterwards i find out by her bro. that its not true...What do I do? Do i keep this friendship? It's obvious i can't trust her Nemore.
2006-07-31 14:46:33 · 3 answers · asked by I♥NY 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just let the friendship end on its own...i mean if she doesnt wantto hang out with u then so be it she wasnt a real friend in the first place...real and true friend dont diss u and lie to u ...she is probably thinkin she dosent need u since she is in college now...just let her hang herself bc one day she will want to talk to u... i think u have done ur part already.. u made the effort and the time to hang out with her when she ditched u not once but constantly...so u have done ur part as a true friend.
2006-07-31 15:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with trust. You say she goes to college, She is just meeting new people she needs change as well as you do. just because you dont hang out as much doesnt mean your not friends, Time apart is good for building good friendships, so you should do the same go out and meet new people or hang out with a different crowd for a while you will both appriciate it.
2006-07-31 22:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by Danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
souinds like that friendship is ending itself for you. you dont need to do a thing. just be awawre that its not your fault. soemtimes people really do just grow apart.
2006-07-31 21:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋