I am so lonely....i have nobody...i'm all on my own...can you help me??

Question

I'm so fat, and i have friends and family, but no boyfriend. nobody wants me...i guess i'm too ugly and fat.... *sniffles*

Answer 1

First off let me say you are not ugly because God made us in his liking, so we are one of his many beautiful creations. Everyone and everything is beautiful in its own way. Telling yourself these negative things lowers your selfesteem which stops you from trying new things, making new friends, and even meeting the man of your dreams. God formed us from the rib of man, so we all have some one to spend the rest of our lives with. As far as your weight try replacing dinner with protein shake. Don't eat out so much. Try eating healthier foods and less fried foods. Reduce your salt intake and try baking your foods. Drink Juices and water instead of soda. Do a few sit ups and push ups before bed and when you wake up. Also try waking a little earlier to walk or jog for about 20 min then work towards adding more time. Try packing a lunch instead of going out for lunch. When you feel like snacking reach for a fruit or some vegies instead of junk food. Try to dispose of all the junk food in your house. I want you to tell your self something positive every day throughout each day. Work on you before worrying about what others think, because if you don't love you first no one else will. Treat yourself cause you deserve it . Get your hair and nails done. Go shopping. Stay active and I gurantee that People will notice your change, because people like to surround theirselves with whatevers postive. And if theres something or someone negative in your life you need to let it or them go. Follow this advice and keep God close to your heart or whoever you worship and you will succeed and everything will change for the better.

Answer 2

running in the morning and biking burn fat, and eat a raw food diet containing plenty fruit and vegetables each day, so you'll have to stop eating what you're currently eating, what contains bad calories. think positively and you could eventually become slimmer. doing all that shrinks waistline into what the models have. i've got that, but i've been doing this stuff since childhood; and continue to do so. it's never too late though but you need to put effort into it and never give up. btw, exercising regularily helps with proper development, it doesn't get in the way with it.



about boyfriends, if you're still in school that's still not the time for starting a relationship because you're still maturing; i've heard many cases where teen girls were cheated on, abused, or forced into sexual activity, and etc from their boyfriends. you're still not ready, so no worries. not every girl in school has a boyfriend. i don't plan on it until i completely graduate and leave my parents.
as i've been told, there's someone out there for everyone. there will be a guy in the future who won't think you're ugly. not only model-like girls have boyfriends. :)

Answer 3

No person can make you happy,only God can change your heart . You have to make yourself happy with God's help. You have the power to lose weigh if you want to do so. No one is forcing you to eat too much. You are the only one putting food in your mouth. Take control of your destiny. Drink water every time you feel hungry. Eat three small meals a day. Enjoy life every day. Laugh, sing, dance and play! Do activities that make you sweat! It is not too late to change the way you look. It is not too late to enjoy life no matter how you look. A boyfriend won't make you happy. Develop a relationship with the Lord Jesus He is the ONE who can help you. and bring you happiness and eternal life.

Answer 4

hun, dont worry a thing.. when a guy comes to you, you know he likes you FOR YOU. not for being a superfisal freak who is all about looks and who can get the hottest guy and 'do them' first. look on the bright side of things, focase on your family and friends, have a girls night out and have a GREAT time. who says you need a boyfriend.. i have been single for 4 years now, i may have had moments like this, but i have great friends around me, who have made me forget my problems.
let your friends guide you and help you hun, they will keep your mind off getting a boyfriend, until you have met the right person.

Answer 5

You have your friends and family, don't cha!!!!???? One day I know your Prince Charming is gonna come. He will love and respect you for who ya are, girl. You don't need a man, you gotta hold out for that one dude that will be worth the wait. Being single ain't all bad!!!!! Trust me.

Answer 6

You can meet ppl online if you make your own blog! Start your own home page and invite others. GL on your quest...

Answer 7

Awwwww, A BIG CUDDLE from Tattie!

Answer 8

oh honey! i'm sure your going to find someone who loves everything about you! i as the same way but i found somebody just give it some time