you and your spouse argue all the time when you do get along you do verrrrry well. the time that we do get along i say i love you and he does to. but when we fight it seems like the end of our marrage iam confused i think he s just playing mind games with me ? what do you think?
2006-07-31 14:31:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What is "all the time"/? Every day? Once a week?
If you are arguing every day or even every week then you might want to seek some counseling. Usually when you argue that often you are arguing over alot of things that neither of you are telling the other about; that is you are are not really mad at him because he forgot to pick up something at the store you asked him to get but you are mad over something else and you have been thinking about it and getting madder and madder over it so that when he does any little thing wrong you blow up and a huge arguement takes place.
Good luck; I hope you 2 can work it out because seperation and/or divorce are not fun.
2006-07-31 17:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you need a little space
And yes people play games but
the game cannot be a situation that
causes separation
Have a glass of wine just to relax
and do not get too out of hand
Always be on guard ok
play the game of life's game of Chess well
and do not get put in check
2006-07-31 21:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by Queen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have relieve that a couple that spend to much time with each other and don't give that person no space will fight , u and him just need to give each other space , maybe u go out with some of your friends and let him go out , that might help u and him not fight to much .
2006-07-31 21:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably the "make up sex" that's getting you guys going. If there's real understanding love and appreciation for each other, then you won't have such highs and lows.
2006-07-31 21:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep the communications goin all the time.... Theres gonna be arguing, but, it passes!
2006-07-31 21:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get along 70% of the time and argue 30%, there's a chance of working it out;
if you argue 70% of the time and get along 30%, YOU NEED TO RECONSIDER YOUR RELATIONSHIP!!!
2006-07-31 21:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are seeing too much of each other.
Take some breaks, one or both of you get a second job.
Join a club,or something.
2006-07-31 21:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most marriage are fight a little love alot
if you fight a lot and love a little then I'm not sure what you should do.
2006-07-31 21:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will only get worse..
2006-07-31 21:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋