I can't not have an orgasm with my man the sex feels good I just can't get off!!!!?

Question

Is there like any pills or ne thing that will help with this? This iss so awfull he thinks its him and it's not ... What can I do... Somebody please help!

Answer 1

mh maybe you are stressing out too much ... or maybe hes just going too straight to the point...let him excite you let him touch you and caress you ask him to give you time.. maybe that is what you need.. try a sensual massage before intercourse or maybe oral sex... but dont go straight to the point until you get really wet.. oh and also try this position: when you are both laying on the bed and you are on the bottom .. put a pillow on your lower back .. a small pillow .. between your back and where the butt starts.. between that curve and try it that way maybe thru this he can stimulte your clitoris and find your G spot.. or try doing it doggy style ... good luck .. :)

Answer 2

Try fantisizing about stuff, like doing it in a naughty place, like on a park bench or in a restaurant, or whatever excites you. Are you talking about oral sex or all sex in general? I have a hard time getting off when having intercouse, but never had a problem with oral sex.
Try fantisizing about things and picture it in your mind, erase wherever you are and put you and your boyfriend in that place. Sometimes the idea of getting caught or seen is exciting too. Try some things that you like, also going to be very naughty here, but getting some anal stimulation makes your orgasm much more intense while having oral sex and because it's a little bit more erotic, thats exciting too. But, good luck! If your still have a problem, I would talk to your doctor. I hear some women do have a hard time with that.

Answer 3

50 % or more women can not orgasm from normal vaginal sex, Your BF either needs to finger you or perform oral on you to get you off. There are Tons of women like this.

Also i dont know you age but many women do not experience an Orgasm until into their early 20's because the system just not hooked up completely yet.

Answer 4

I would say you have to make sure there is PLENTY of foreplay get you very aroused and then... feel no pressure about it and just relax, try empty your mind as much as possible.
I know for a fact (cause it used to happened to me) that I was always very preoccupied and worried with "trying" to have an orgasm and because of it I couldn't have one... good luck and have a blast!!! (I hope this helps...)

Answer 5

There's nothing wrong, With either of you.

Can you make yourself orgasm?
If so, Show him what you do, Buy some sex toys, Or simply just have a hell of alot more foreplay.

Don't stress about it, Most women don't get off everytime.

Answer 6

Try something different, role play even. I don't mean dressing up like a chicken and telling him what's for dinner or some corny crap, I mean making a setting in your mind, pretending you guys are somewhere else.

You would be surprised how well that works.

Answer 7

they have a thing called the Plesure Pill, it's suppost to work really well. i took one pill and it didn't do anything, i think you're suppost to take 2 at a time. there's also Stamina RX. Good luck!

Answer 8

This works for my girl: Stick a cucumber in ur turd shooter and make him sqeal like a hungry pigglet who ain't suckled at it's mama's teet for a few hours. Gits my girl every time.

Answer 9

Obviously since there are two people involved, you both have roles. Do you try helping yourself? I mean something like playing with your clit while he is inside you, is always amazing.
The fact that he is concerned is really good. I am sure you can work it out. Enjoy.

Answer 10

there is only really pills for libido, nothing to help you orgasm. maybe you have trouble orgasming through penetration, because you need clitoral stimulation to get the big o