I don't show her how much she means to me every day. I am a very busy man and I would like to do something very special for her.
2006-07-31 14:15:44 · 30 answers · asked by DC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
chocolates, flowers, dinner at a fine restaurant, oh and don't forget to clean the toilet.
2006-07-31 14:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by peppermint_paddy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its is with great understanding that you want to show your appreciation to your wife, but this is something that you should not have to do, because you both entered into the relationship knowing that things would be a certain way for a while. in saying this, I mean that, either you are lacking in your communicative abilities to her or she is feeling left out. try letting her be apart of what's going on, so she can feel like a real partner in the marriage. stop thinking big of yourself and little of her. she's not a pen cushion or pleasure drone. take the time to be a kid again, have fun. remember, in order to keep her, you gotta do the same thing you did when you met her ----- you gotta court her. if you don't, someone else will. Then you become the loser, so back up and go to step one, the courtship is forever and so will be her love.
2006-07-31 21:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by WOODSAK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really the little things that a woman appreciates the most. bring home a bouquet of flowers just because, not because its a special day or anything, take her out in the middle of the week to her favorite restaurant, call her from work just to say hi and you love her and you're thinking about her. tell her some of the things about her that attracted you in the first place and that you can't wait to see how the next 10 years turns out. if you want to go big time special, arrange a weekend getaway for the two of you, but don't tell her, let it be a surprise.
2006-07-31 21:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by JayRay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her flowers to work or home as a surprise - my husband will do this (he often works 12 hour days) and it means the world to me. You can also leave her little love notes in her purse or under her keys if you leave the house in the morning before she does. If you get a chance during the day, give her a call just to see how she's doing and let her know that you care.
And most of all - tell her that you love her and appreciate her every day - that is the best way to let her know!
2006-07-31 21:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by lonely_girl3_98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say Thank You.
Buy her flowers for no reason.
Watch the stars and tell her it's just to spend time with her.
Tell HER best friend how much you appreciate your wife. Good news spreads too.
Tell YOUR friend when she is there how lucky you are.
Go on a picnic. Often.
Wash her hair. (Good one)
If you can see, it is not one big thing that will show her the appreciation she deserves.
I wake up every day, kiss my wife goodbye, and tell her I will see her soon.
I have an extremely good marriage, so much so friends really envy our relationship.
Best part of my day - Turning down the bed she has so meticulously made that day. She knows it too.
Have Fun.
2006-07-31 21:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by beedaduck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love this question! Instead of a showy predictable fancy dinner and flowers,
tease her....start the day by whispering in her ear how beautiful she is in the am...leave a sweet note on her car window, with a single red rose and note that says to plan on an evening together...call her mid-day to see how her day is going...if you have kids(arrange a babysitter so she doesn't have to)
For dinner try going to the first place you met her, or a quaint or funky little place out of the way....after dinner surprise her with a delicate charm bracelet or something similar....
once home offer to give her a massage...and by this time she'll be feeling your love.
It's all about presentation, romance and time.....
And after this night...make a point once and awhile of leaving little notes or making a quick call in the middle of the day...
we just want to know we matter.
Best of luck to you both....
2006-07-31 21:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by ShellRe' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sweet!!
Well as a mom of four and a husband that is also a very busy man I know I would like for him to cook a nice dinner and then clean the kitchen.. Let me sit down and enjoy a meal and not have to clean the mess.
2006-07-31 21:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring her some flowers (don't send them bring them - this let's her know that you took some time to look for the flowers and chose them yourself). Get her a funny or sweet card (I personally like funny cards) or get several and every once in awhile, put it in the mail (if possible get someone whose handwriting she doesn't know to address the card), but you write on the inside "Guess Who" or I love you, or something else. Drop these in the mail and don't let her know they are coming. My friends and I used to do this all the time, we called it a card war - we never knew when one was coming our way but it always made our day and let us know that someone thought we were special enough to find and send a card. When she might least expect it - leave a note in the bed (if she is the one who makes it) - saying I love you. Find other places she might find notes and leave them.
2006-07-31 21:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sweet that you even know about the situation, that she may feel you dont appreciate her. Sometimes just telling her how much you love her and appreciate her can make all the difference. But if you want it to be really special just do something romantic, or just take her out somewhere you know she loves.
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-31 21:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her flowers and write a card that says something like, "Just because you are the best thing that has ever happened to me".
Take her out to dinner at a nice place.
Buy her some jewelry, or whatever it is she likes.
Most of all, make it personal and obviously something you put some thought into.
2006-07-31 21:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by merigold00 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little things every day!!! Beginning with a love note on the kitchen table----or on her dresser.....a single rose left on her dashboard or windshield with a little "i love you" note! (make sure you sign it!)
Sharing with her how happy you are to be sharing this life together---"just telling her whenever you get a chance!!!
My husband does this all the time!!!! :) :)
He lets me know daily how much he loves me!!! when we first see each other in the morning after waking up, when he comes home from work...actually all different times of the day...right after enjoying a meal i just made!!!! etc....
We make it a point to always let each other know we are glad that GOD brought us into each others' lives!!! :)
That's what keeps the love burning!!!
2006-07-31 21:27:20 · answer #11 · answered by dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋