ok, so my boyfriend of 2 years broke up w/ me about 2 & a half months ago & I am still upset about it. Some days I hate him & other days I miss him & want him back. When he broke up w/ me he said @ first it was because I was possessive and then he told me he just wanted to be single for awhile. Well two weeks later he starts dating a girl who is 15 (he is 17) & she lives 3 hours away. And they only had met once before they started dating. I don't know what to do anymore. Ive been depressed for awhile & it feels like I will never get over it. Then school is going to start in like 2 weeks and Im really scared to see him because I haven't seen him all summer and I loved it but Im afraid when I see him @ school Im going to get upset and the progress I had made will be gone. Do you think that his relationship is just a rebound? And he will ever call me again to apologize? I just want some answers but I dont want to talk to him until they break up. What should I do?
2006-07-31 14:11:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The progress you've made is good, and normal. You may feel a little sting the first few times you see him again, but this too will pass in time. I wouldn't describe his new relationship as a rebound relationship because he broke up with you, and people experiencing rebound feelings are usually the ones who've been dumped. He will probably never call you to apologize, but he will mention it again, and I'll tell you when it's going to be: at your ten year high school reunion when you're successful, gorgeous and famous, he'll waddle his balding, pudgy self over to you with some lame come on...and you won't even remember his name. Life's just funny like that. So, I'm sorry this worked out like this, but the story's not over yet. She who laughs last, laughs best. And I've got a feeling your turn is going to be a doozy! Good luck to you.
2006-07-31 14:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You are going to have to move on, he doesn't sound like he deserves you anyway. If you see him in school which i'm sure you will say hi, and maybe how are you, but nothing more. Your going to have feelings when you see him and that will be normal, but just keep thinking to yourself that he isn't good enough for you. The guy that you are meant to be with may be coming in your life sooner than you realize, but if you are to busy wondering about your ex and missing ex, you may over look mister right. Don't do that.
2006-07-31 21:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k.. I know what it's like, and there are times I feel the same about my ex as well, but the thing sadly is, he's seeing someone else.
It's never ever easy..but my suggestion, the best thing, is to move on.
It's easier said than done, and I'm going through something so similiar, but it's better to move on. As for seeing him into school, it will be a task the first few times, but you'll adjust to it.
It sounds sooo much easier said than done..but I think it's best to just forget him, and find someone better :)
2006-07-31 21:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by xx_ladyxluck_xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's long gone, Get over it.
If you are lucky enough to find another boyfriend don't be so possessive, We hate that crap and despise women that think because we are seeing each other that we OWN each other.
2006-07-31 21:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by chubbiguy40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone that cares about you and that is not going to lie to you about wanting to be with you or not. sometimes guys don't think before they do things so maybe he didn't think twice about going with a 15 year old girl. he needs to leave her alone.
2006-07-31 21:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by starlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun... Find some one who cares for you. If he could find some one in two weeks. He does not care....
2006-07-31 21:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by Windwispers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋