My girlfriend.... more than that, my soulmate... It's a long-distance thing, although I am making every effort to see her as soon as possible... Well, she tells me how her father yells at her and gets physical sometimes... and I feel so bad that I can't be there to help her, to hold her, to make her feel safe... I know I will someday, but right now, I feel so helpless... I'm not sure how to deal with this feeling...
And if you have comments about how long-distance relationships don't work, or other stupid jackass remarks, please keep them to yourself. I'm not interested.
2006-07-31 13:42:10 · 6 answers · asked by kea33w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow, I thought all Yahoo Answers users were heartless jackasses. Thanks for proving me wrong, guys.
2006-07-31 14:13:07 · update #1
Wow...rough situation huh...
Comming from a girl, I really think the best thing for u to do is confort her the best u can..tell her how u feel...tell her that she is ur soulmate and u will stick with her no matter what...If she needs anything u will be there for her...to talk to her...to be her friend...
trust me she will definatly appreciate it...
and i agree THIS long distance relationship will work...especially if u love her...
so far mine is, my bf travels around the world with his parents...his fathers job carrys him and his family to different counties...we keep in close contact...
she is pretty lucky to have a best friend like u...
and good luck!!!
:D
2006-07-31 14:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by * 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's got to be about as tough a deal as one can have!! You need to realize that abused people often abuse. I know, I know, you're not ready to hear that. But it's true. She will most likely need counseling or other therapy to help her. You can do a great deal. If she is under age, there are child protective services available. If she is of age, there are safe houses where she can go. Get her whatever help she needs and will take.
2006-07-31 13:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its one of those things you have to remind yourself you are doing the best you can right now and that the situation is out of your control. I know you feel bad, who wouldn't? I say just have your cell always on and handy if she needs a shoulder to cry on...and make sure she knows she can call anytime she needs you.
2006-07-31 13:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your girlfriend that her father abuse her !! She need to call for help if that's the case and there are many places she can go !! You are not able to help are you guys young ??? please more details.... but her father don't have the right to be abusive to her, and if she's lying to get to you then that ain't cool...
2006-07-31 14:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by classy chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am really sorry. i wish i could help you. the only thing i can tell you is hang in there and if you guys are meant to be ( which it sounds like) you guys will be happy for the rest of your lives. Good luck!!!Best Wishes to you both!!!
2006-07-31 13:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r you both?
report it tell her to get away
2006-07-31 13:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by babyfedwick2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋