She says she will remain a virgin until she is married, but my other friends say no man will wait that long.
2006-07-31 13:21:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Bear in mind that she won't do anything. No petting or fondling.
2006-07-31 13:22:36 · update #1
I am not a religious person so no i wouldnt marry someone who i didnt have at least a physical relationship with. We are now in a society that sex before marriage is no longer an issue. I met my husband and really fell in love with him but we didnt get married till five years later... if we didnt have that sexual relationship and got on as well as we did no matter how much i liked him i dont think i could have married him.
Sex is an important part of any relationship, having said that if she is reallu sticking to that point she will find a guy that feels the same way about her or have at least the same mind set.
I dont think she should change the way that she thinks to suit 'society' it is a personal thing. I say good on her for sticking to what she believes in. To bad there are not more people out there that think the same thing, we might not have so many young unmarried women having babies.
2006-07-31 13:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Paz 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No sex is a big part of a marriage and what if she gets with a guy and he has a foot long penis and she dosnt find out till the honeymoon and the thing just destroys her and she cant have sex with this guy because it hurts everytime and now she has this guy that wasnt a virgin before and hes gonna want sex but she cant do it cause it hurts or lets say he just is bad at it with a normal size, thats no fun for her and shes not gonna want to which is gonna create another problem and possibly lead to the man OR HER cheating later on in the marrige, would you marry someone without going on a date, knowing how good they are at getting and controling their money, how they are with kids. I dont think so.
2006-07-31 13:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by puresplprix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how far she goes. Yeah I can go without sex, but if by she won't do anything she wouldn't kiss or hug as well as fondle then no wouldn't want to stay with her. I see nothing wrong with her not petting or fondling per se. I know some guys wouldn't want to be with a woman like that but I wouldn't care. Besides if she dies a virgin would that be so terriable. Maybe you people should stay out of her non-exsistant sex life, which would mean not talking about yours in front of her. I get so sick of people today acting like everyone should have sex.
2006-07-31 13:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, so was I. Then I had a fling, at 37, I think and then met DH at 38 or 39. We now have a son who is almost 3. What's the problem? Should your friend just go and have sex with someone so she's not a virgin anymore or should it be meaningful in some way? Your other friends are silly.
2006-07-31 13:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would not buy a car without taking a test drive first, and I doubt I would have found a girl that innocent to be attractive to me at all. But some guys might like the idea of marrying a virgin. Her real problem is that she may have difficulty conceiving at her age. Any guy who wants kids should wonder about that.
2006-07-31 13:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, no. To put it kind of crudely, I'd want to check out the goods before I buy the store! But some people really feel strongly about staying a virgin before marriage, and I'm sure she will find a guy that feels the same way. She should check out bible study groups, so she can find someone with similar beliefs!
2006-07-31 13:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by rita_alabama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hasn't married by now, she isn't going to get married. I hate to sound cynical, but I don't think anyone is going to be on the prowl for an aged, asexual spouse.
It's going to take a special guy who will a) want to be with that kind of woman, and will b) wait that long. Your friends are right.
2006-07-31 13:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by Hello Che 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
37? Damn. I thought that i was bad.
No man will wait that long unless he's gay. 37 is a little too old you know. At least she can give a little action in her relationships. Or be clear about her intentions with a non horny man at church. Which doesn't exist. So um.... all the best to her
2006-07-31 13:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by mooonmean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a female point of view, I would think guys would wonder what is wrong with her if she's still a virgin at 37. What do you GUYS say?
2006-07-31 13:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by jthomp58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:01:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋