My lover is concernd with her breasts being to big, she told me they are 38DD's. they look really nice to me. there the size of cannalops. I want her to be happy, and if that means getting her breasts shrunk, then im behind her for it, but i would lose my fantasy of larger breasts. What should i do.
2006-07-31 13:12:53 · 21 answers · asked by princekaze4 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Support her decision. I understand that you may think it is really cool for her to have big breasts, however, consider this:
Women with big breasts
-- Back pain is probably the biggest complaint of large-breasted women, contributing to an already reduced activity level.
-- By reducing breast size a women can reduce her chance of breast cancer by around 30%. For women over fifty, that number jumps to around 50%.
-- Painful indentations on the shoulders from a bra
-- Droop more when gravity hits (then you won't think they are so cool)
Enjoy them and have a wild time before she goes to have it done. When they are smaller, maybe she will have more energy (less weight). Your relationship won't suffer if you truly love her and not just her figure.
2006-07-31 13:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by curiouschick18 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you love her just as she is, and that she should only get a reduction op if she is having any sort of problems, such as back problems.
A DD cup is pretty large, but not overly large that she would have problems with her back due to the weight of her breasts. She could invest in a minimser bra if she is conscious of her bust size. This will help her breasts appear smaller.
2006-07-31 13:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be supportive. She can get a healthy reduction without removing them entirely, and she won't be stuck with back pain or breasts down to her ankles in her old age because of all those babies you're planning on having.
2006-07-31 13:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Woz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your lover want to do? It is up to her and only her actually, unless you guys make a mutal decision! It wouldnt matter if yahoo thinks she should! If she wants to, and she would feel more comfortable, then YES she should do that! Tell her I feel her pain!!! Good Luck in finding the best dr. Have a great nite!
2006-07-31 13:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by femaleballa23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you truly love her, it shouldn't matter. Just because she is having a reduction, doesn't mean that her breasts won't still look attractive, they will just be more proportionate and you will probably see her confidence soar, which is always a turn on in the bedroom ; )
2006-07-31 13:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well stop being selfish and get over your fantasy. The only real reason to get a reduction would be its causing her back pain.
2006-07-31 13:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has 38DD's she should get them shrunk. As for your fantasy's her boobs dont need to be huge to be nice.
2006-07-31 13:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to do whatever makes her happy!...if they are that BIG then she needs them to be shrunk, because that can be very painful & hurtful.
2006-07-31 13:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Jade♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should back her up no matter what she chooses. However, you should assure her that she is beautiful just how she is. I hope you'll continue to be her lover after she gets them reduced and that you are not just another shallow guy.
2006-07-31 13:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by Susie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your selfish! Maybe it hurts her to be that big. I went from a 34A to a 44C and it's killing me. Nothing fits right and men are pigs!!! They stare and make you feel obscene! Too big is not attractive. And always being in pain sucks!!!!
2006-07-31 13:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by corina381 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋