I really like this girl, but i am going to a diffrent school, live in the same area though, we are both in the 10th grade. I have her AIM Address, but thats it. She dosent really remember me all that well from school, but we are friends, in a small way. I realll Like her. and i want to let her know. But i dont know how. I have heard to get to know her. I have heard to ask for her number. I have heart to just Tell her. I have heard to give subtle hits over aim. but i am not sure exactly what to do. I really think i want to tell her. but i dont want to come on too strong and scare her away. But i want her to know how i feel. School starts in just 2 weeks, and I really dont want to lose her. She has the best personality, and is the most beautiful girl i have ever seen. What should i do. I am stuck. I dont even know what to say to her on aim. What to talk about. I am lost. I really Like This Girl. And she needs to know. But I just Dont Know. can someone Please Help me?
2006-07-31 13:07:34 · 17 answers · asked by Me!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I couldent possibly forget about her. She is all i think about. I practically melt when i see her. and i cant think of any other girls but her.
2006-07-31 13:07:47 · update #1
You seem really troubled...I'd adopt the NIKE slogan "JUST DO IT!" Whatever the outcome is, let it slide. The only reason why you are hesitating is because you are afraid of rejection. Don't be! If you come clean with your feelings for this girl, there's two likely scenarios:
(Scenario 1)
She realises your feelings for her, she responds positively and she'll keep in touch with you even when you leave for a new school.
(Scenario 2)
She realises your feelings for her and she responds negatively. So WHAT?! At least you move on with your life and meet another girl who's more suitable for you in your new school.
The most important thing you have to do is to confront your fear of rejection rather than recollect 10 years from now, "If only I've approached her...if only". Don't EVER be haunted by regrets in life.
Take care!
2006-07-31 13:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel. You are very young still, she will either respond in kind or she won't, but either way you will have some closure, you can't keep on like this.
But Helpful Kim up there is right to an extent, if you come across as to needy or desperate you are doomed. Remember you are only in 10th grade you have a whole life ahead of you. Ask her out, tell her how you feel, if she isn't interested it really is not the end of the world.
2006-07-31 20:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by tm_tech32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both live locally, ask her to go to a movie or the mall or sumpin where there's lots of people so it's not just you and her. It doesn't have to be boyfriend girlfriend type thing, ask her as friends.
Let her get to know you more as a person rather than someone online.
Do you have any mutual friends? Do you like to do the same things? Do you like the same music? Find stuff that you both like to do and try to go places that have these things.
You won't know unless you ask, so just take the plunge. If you don't ask her she might think your not interested and move on.
2006-07-31 20:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by hisladytish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before school starts and you have a chance of loosing her, ask her to hang out. Just IM her and see if she's bored and wants to do something. And if she's busy, say -ok, if you are bored some time let me know we can hang out. Something along those lines..
2006-07-31 20:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by erin_marie360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to scare her away with your desperation. Find out what her interests are and find a way to be involved or ask her to do something with you. This is not marriage, this is getting to know if you have similar interests. Repeat: Do not scare her to death!
2006-07-31 20:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Helpful Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh gawd now a guy
whats wrong with you people?
why dont you have a backbone?
why cant you just go up and talk to people - why feel the need to tell us?
gah i am now officially avoiding anything that starts with the *oh noooooooz*
ugh
2006-07-31 20:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by asshat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur in love with a girl who does not really know u that well...all u can do is to g o up to her with flowers and ask her out.....if she says ok then good for u and if she says no then try to move on
2006-07-31 20:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her an Email telling your feelings
2006-07-31 20:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask for her number if she doesn't give it to you then ask one of her friends to give it to you then if you get her number call her and ask her on a date then if she agrees then get to know her and then share your feelings about her and tell her all of your thought about her that is most of the things I can think of.
2006-07-31 20:13:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will make yourself sick pondering what to do, just do it so you can know the answer to your question. It is easy to move on if you know
2006-07-31 20:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋