me and my girlfriend just broke up.......do girls enjoy doing this to guys or am i blowing this out of proportion?.......also i really want her back....is it possible to get her back?
2006-07-31 12:52:37 · 24 answers · asked by Paul 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
first of all, why did she break up with you and how old are you? Not all girls are mean and I don't know about everyone else but I don't enjoy hurting guys. I usually think about other people's feelings before I think of my own, then I am the one who gets hurt. Don't let her know that you want her back, play hard to get and if she wants to be with you, she'll come running back. Girls hate it when a guy plays hard to get. Good Luck hun and you can email me if you want to talk apwilliams4@yahoo.com
2006-07-31 13:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by barefootmodel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal the wound. Three years is a long relationship BUT there are much longer ones that break up. Be happy you weren't together 10 years. You are suffering from being broken up WITH -- mostly. Don't worry......life will continue and you'll get over it faster than you think you will. It will take time but you can make it. I promise. You aren't that dependent on a "person" are you? That would not be good for you. Think about it. Your self esteem is screwing with you more than anything right now. Think about what is making you upset the most.....the girl or the fact that she broke it off with you? There are a LOT of females out there I'm sure would be thrilled to go out with you. No rebounding right away though --- okay? You have to get YOU back together again first. I'm sorry you are hurting -- hang in there. It is NOT the end of the world - no matter WHAT your heart is saying......
2006-07-31 19:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is understandable after 3 years that you would have some kind of feelings - in this case you are upset.
You also ask do you think you can get her back? I don't know the answer to that. But if she let you know she wanted to go separate ways I don't think so.
Recognize that you are upset, that is okay. However, don't dwell on your feelings. Rather than trying to get her back be thankful for the time you did have. Learn from it, and move forward. Each relationship teaches us something to make us better.
2006-07-31 20:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are blowing this out of proportion, but boy, there's a person in this world for everyone. the sad thing is that sometimes, they never find each other. But just keep looking ok? i know you'll find the right girl for yourself. And it may be possible to get her back. let her know that you miss her and you really care about her.
2006-07-31 20:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Tangy & Cherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls
you can't stereotype about them
im sure you could get back together, but im not sure what it would take
maybe she'll may end up missing you . . .
have you ever watched 10 things i hate about you??
you know when heath ledger went out to the stadium and sang
that was so sweet!!! just going up and totally embarrasing himself for her i don't think i could ever resist a guy doing something like that for me (it worked in the movie)
wait, you went on for three years?
so it probably wasn't a having fun dumping thing if the relationship was that long, but more of a something went wrong
2006-07-31 19:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are mean. And I can understand how upset you must be right now, and you have every right to be. But it will be okay. And honey, you don't want to be with a girl that's going to do that to you. You deserve better than that. Keep looking, the perfect girl is out there waiting for you.
2006-07-31 20:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Heather616 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for get it. get her out ur mind and life u will be better off. if she dumped u. shes no good and yes alot of girls like to do that to guys. so. but im sorry to hear that happened to u some girls can be so hateful.
2006-07-31 19:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up if you really love her keep trying to get her back I feel for you casue me and my boyfriend just broke up after 2 years so I kinda feel for you just be strong and no girls don't do it for fun sometimes they might just feel like your not right for them
2006-07-31 19:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by phillyhottie000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, some girls do tend to enjoy dumping guys.......but come on, if you were dating for three years chances are that dumping you really hurt her too. talk to her about what went wrong and show her that you really care would be my best advice to you......but then again what do i know?
2006-07-31 19:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible u can get her back because i ve been in a relationship for 3 years and it's been on and off so trust me yall gone get back together it probably take time.she probably just mad at you right now.
2006-07-31 19:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by SHANNON H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋