2006-07-31 12:41:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no answer on how long it takes a person to heal after a divorce.It greatly depends on the type person you are, your family and friends and how quickly you want to move on. Every person and situation is different, but people with good friends and family rebound quicker than loners do. Keeping your mind preoccupied and off the divorce helps. Do something youve always wanted to do but couldnt for whatever reason. Its your new life so make of it what you want. Good luck
2006-07-31 12:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't want the divorce, it takes "forever and a day". That is how long it seemed to me after my divorce. I didn't believe it was over. I knew deep down, that we would get back together. Friends and family were pushing me to get on with my life. I couldn't! Every new day, was harder than the day before. Eventually, we ran into each other, and all the love we had for each other was still there and going strong. We eventually got back together. My husband "thanks" me quite often, for not giving up on us.
2006-07-31 20:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time it took me 3 or 4 years. The second time it took me 3 or 4 days.
2006-07-31 19:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a year later for me. I moved on after about 6 months, but I am still struggling financially.
2006-07-31 19:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by sparkles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You focus on your kids (it's the only opportunity you have to do so). You forgive, because if you don't you'll never move-on. I know, been there done that (three times). And may I add that I'm a better person today for it!
2006-07-31 19:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by TCBgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4-5 months, I have a new boyfriend now but I am still figuring out finances... my ex was a spendaholic and got us into quite a bit of debt.
2006-07-31 19:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by concerned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy.....as soon as I stepped out of the court house doors. Good riddance.
2006-07-31 19:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not long,he was a jack a s s and i was just tired and ready
2006-07-31 19:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋