i ues to have this friend and we ues to talk alot we ues to tell each other we love each other now she has a bf and says she is to busy to call we ues to even have sexual relations together,she says she is busy but how busy are you that you cant call me at 10:00 or !0:30 .because we were friends she never calls me anymore, should i give it one more shot and call her or forget about it
2006-07-31 12:16:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
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Questions of this magnitude tend to awaken deep thoughts, as well as stir emotions. So, I will tell you there are still plenty of fish in the ocean.
2006-08-04 16:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin of China, PhD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it,it's over! She is into someone else. Her excuses were a way to help you to see that things were different between you two now that she has a boyfriend. So it's time for you to just get on with your life and find someone else to hang out with. Don't call her because she will just tell you the same thing.
2006-07-31 12:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that she is trying to honor her exclusive relationship with her bf. Maintaining contact with former male friends, particularly ones with whom she's had intimate relations, may be a touchy subject with her new man. For many, keeping in touch with past sexual partners can be a sign of infidelity to come, and be a deal-breaker. Make it easier on both of you and let her explore this relationship she's in, and if she happens to become single again soon, THEN call her. Otherwise, consider her "off limits."
2006-07-31 12:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by -=eXiLe=- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer a good chum. tell him friendship works 2 strategies and he became the 1st to break the association. First non tutor comprehensible if he fairly wanted a job. 2nd time whilst he left basically ignorant. If he nonetheless thinks he top tell it is the tip of a proper friendship until he matures.
2016-11-03 10:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you sound like you were pretty awesome friends.. try telling her how you feel and give her a chance to explain.. if her explanation makes no sense at all then tell her she can either start being a better friend or not be a friend at all. It may hurt.. but it'll only hurt more if she carries it on. good luck.. i hope you guys work it out :)
2006-07-31 12:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK U R WASTIN UR TIME FORGET ABOUT HER U SAY SHE ALREADY HAS A BF
SHE ALREADY MOVED ON WITH HER LIFE
N NOW U HAVE 2 DO THE SAME THING GIRLS DONT WANNA STOP TALKIN 2 THERE BF N SOMETIMES THEY TALK 4 HOURS N HOURS SO FORGET HER N MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-31 12:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand the under the kind of mental trauma u are going through...but then also i will suggest you do not call her you have already tried to contact her..if she really loves you she will come back to you only ..and if she does not come back..then pls think that she never had love for you....so have patience..do not loose you heart.
2006-08-07 21:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im...i think you should call it quits on trying to get back with her. and having that whole "relationship" like thing...
but being friends..is something you shouldnt take for granted. make one last effort. and if she pushes you away, tell her to go f*** herself...well not in those words. but you get the gist of it lol
2006-07-31 12:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by BWW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may need space and maybe very happy at the moment with her bf. give her time...u can be still remain as friends but no more sexual relationship.
2006-07-31 12:24:14 · answer #9 · answered by edna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do friends have sexual relationships? Friends are friends and lovers...that's another story
2006-07-31 12:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by Surething 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋