yet again...we have been up and down for a few months now and now i am saying to myself is it worth all this...i love him to bits but i hate the poo times we have and these days we have more bad times than good, i am one to talk ehh and as a man he aint i talk to him all the time and he seems to be on another planet or is that just the man in him
at the end of the day i love this man with all i have BUT what can i do
2006-07-31 12:13:23 · 7 answers · asked by cute sexy little feet 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
all you are doing is driving yourelf nuts, take a few weeks and dont see or talk to him and see how you feel then
2006-07-31 12:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
For a marriage to work & be a happy marriage both of you have to want it to work & you both have to work at it.
You have to expect to have some rows or heated discussions but it's how you deal with them that can turn it from another little spat into a big mega row.
Has either of you got a problem or worry that the other one knows nothing about, stress makes me snappy & short tempered & I hate to say it but so can guilt.
You need to both sit down & talk honestly & seriously with no distractions, you need to discuss the rows & any problems or worries, you also both have to decide if this relationship is worth fighting for, if it isn't then it's time to call it a day. If it is then maybe counselling could help.
2006-07-31 19:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not married to this guy good you can break up and move on and find a guy who listen.. that not good health for you both for having more bad than good. smiling. So, Me my wife we do have ups and downs... but most imporant to listen to eachother no matter what we talk about. It worth to sit and listen and talk about and get idea how to solve this plm. That how my wife and I work very hard at first and now much better smiling. now it been 9 years and still counting smiling
2006-07-31 19:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aghh,everyone has bust ups, i have had plenty with my bloke, to make up is the best thing, just take deep breaths and think how much you love him, all men can be swines, just like most girls can be *******, If you love him try and make it upto him, if its his fault, then discuss the problem with him. Im forever falling out with my hubby, but we always resolve it by talking to each other, dont sleep on an argument, you dont want to wake up in the morning regreting it. But saying that dont blame yourself, make him speak his view too. Good Luck, let me know how you got on paulalblj@hotmail.com.
2006-07-31 19:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by paula25catt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are all about compromise Hun, you don't say what your row was over but that's not really important.
you have to give to receive.
both of you.
with patience, trust and honesty you can get through anything.
clear the air prove you love him and compromise.
if he wants to go out every night agree on 3 nights etc....
in return he should be willing for you to have a night out, more importantly you should go out together.
just an example.
good luck, love each other
2006-07-31 19:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by tuppassister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a little break from each other. A few days apart could make a world of difference. Let him see what its like to not have you around, he'll miss you and appreciate you more.
2006-07-31 19:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What law says a woman must date one man? try other men for a change, me for instance im single Ill show you what youve been missing.
2006-07-31 20:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by olayinka o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋