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Question

SO I BROKE UP WITH MY GIRL ON FRIDAY WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 8 MONTHS SHE HAS A BABY BY ANOTHER GUY THE BABY IS 1 MONTH OLD AND CHEATED ON ME ONCE THATS WHAT SHE SAID BUT WHAT EVER SHE ALWAYS KEPT CONVERSATION WITH HIM DURING ALL HER PREGNANCY BEHIND MY BACK SHE HAD THE BABY AND I DONT KNOW WHAT I WAS DOING THERE IT WAS AN EVERYDAY FIGHTING SHE ALWAYS TOLD ME THAT I WAS CHEATING ON HER BUT IT ONLY MADE ME THINK SHE WAS THE ONE DOING IT TO ME BUT I HAD ENOUGH SO TODAY I WENT TO PICK UP MY STUFF AND SHE JUST BEGGED ME TO STAY SHE CRIED I SAID WHE WOULD TALK AFTER WORK AND I AM ABOUT TO GO HOME AND I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I DONT WANT TO BE WITH HER SHE IS ALWAYS MISTREATING ME AND I GIVE THIS GIRL EVERYTHING I WAS JUST FED UP WHAT DO YOU THINK?

Answer 1

Whew.....I think you need to use some punctuation. My thoughts are you should leave her alone....she's got too much going on and the baby's father is going to be around for at least the next 18 years. Why put yourself through that.

Answer 2

You need to make up your mind on what type of relationship you are willing to deal with, because this one won't be easy. She's not going to stop cheating and she knew she had a good thing in you so this is why she's crying. Things will get better maybe for a little while, but you still won't have any trust for her, so just let things go before spending any more time in a lost cause. Unless you think she's worth trying to be with again, only you can make this difficult decision.

Answer 3

Why you stayed with an freshly pregnant girl is beyond me! You should have known from the start that she was going to still be in contact with whoever she was ****** before she met you! Especially if shes having his baby. Just GET OVER IT and leave her! If shes gonna cheat, she didnt like you that much anyway. Just answer this question. Do you really NEED that kind of drama in your life? No. So let go!

Answer 4

Well if your interested in her. Sit down and talk. tell her what you like and don't like and the changes that has to be made before you give it another chance. If you want out the just get out. Don't fool around with it.
Remember the saying. If a person is accusing someone of cheating without proof. Then they usually are the one cheating.

Answer 5

I think that you should just leave her alone . I hate to see a person get messed over when they have done all they can to keep the relationship going. You're going to be ok there's more woman out there who would really appreciate someone like you. Good Luck:)

Answer 6

I think you have every right to be fed up. If she cheated on you, she doesn't appreciate you and obviously doesn't deserve you. If you stay with her, she'll just keep mistreating you. In my opinion, she had her chance and she lost it. I hope this helps. Good luck.

Answer 7

Once a cheater, always a cheater. You made the right move. I know your heart hurts, but it will get better. You need to be with someone that respects you enough not to cheat.

Answer 8

Hey if you dont feel it for her anymore then end it, she has issues to work out in her life before she can be with a guy. Good luck.

Answer 9

Dude I was in the same situation. I left. I rather be happy than miserable. And you know what, she is going to keep looking for you. All that crying she is doing..... Don't listen to it. Because she knows your weakness. Just walk away. It's like they say " The hardest part, is letting go"

Answer 10

Continue supporting the child. You made the right decision to leave. Nobody should treat you like that. You want to be with someone you could trust. It's up to her to straighten her life out.