2006-07-31 11:33:23 · 24 answers · asked by warparcher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because you are not a good lover.
d'oh.
2006-07-31 11:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Stargatebabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I'll try and soften this more than the others. It probably isn't that you're bad in bed, but that you aren't as in tune to her sexual needs as you need to be. Sex isn't just about men getting the pleasure. And women are more complicated in getting to climax. Talk to her, spend more time on foreplay (yes, guys, unless you want to spend your life making love to you hand, you gotta spend some time on this), find out what she likes and where she likes it. Once you're more in tune with what she wants, she'll appreciate it and be more enthusiastic about sex. Also, try a few new things, a new position, roleplaying, etc. to spice it up. Eventually, you two will get on the same wavelength. But it does take (now, men don't pass out on the sight of this word) communication, which means having to open your mouth and talking to her. But you'll be happier once you do, trust me. Good luck!
2006-07-31 11:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should say lets do supper and dishes together and may do you feel like making love with me. There is more to love or sex then just sticking your penis to pleasure you why not spend more time with her and only her make her feel special. Here a starter, take a bath together and work toward the bedroom. body massage and small playing around, make her want you and nothing will do except make love to her all night not sex use the word love more then sex, you can go down the street and get sex
2006-07-31 11:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by hillbilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may have some issues...if your girl shuts down.
cause thats not supposed to happen.
Make sure there are no cuts or openings in your "woman" because it may let out the air. Otherwise take it back to the store for either a refund or store credit. For i guy like you. I would choose store credit.
2006-07-31 11:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps her plug came out of the wall...or try putting another quarter in the slot. Shut down?? Do you mean a blank bored stare while you are dazzling her with your lovemaking skills? perhaps spend a little more time on foreplay...and that does not include the hour or so you spend pestering and begging before she finally relents and gives in.
2006-07-31 11:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by Not Really Morbid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut down what? Sounds like you've been with the wrong women.
2006-07-31 11:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What women are you having sex with? I don't "shut down" and I don't know anyone who does. I don't mean to sound mean, I'm just truly wondering.
2006-07-31 11:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're not doing something right...... Don't mean to be cruel, but thats the only time I've noticed I myself have shut down...
2006-07-31 11:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only shut down when the guy im with sucks at it...
2006-07-31 11:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably a virus. What you go to do is run an anti-virus. If you have one, renew the license. It is probably expired.
2006-07-31 11:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most times its because of past experiences. Just be patient.
2006-07-31 11:36:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋