she was as my sister and she now goes out with boy i love and she knew that. now people ask why we are not together (she and me) and i think i need to tell everything cause she- the sweet face loooks so inocent and i am as some strong person. she told to one our friend she"doubts" i love him!!and eveeeeerithing she knew(me and he were not couple but i am sure we would be once, he knew nothing. what do you think?? please help, i am destroyed....
2006-07-31 11:31:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
so,your bff is going out with the guy you like,but he didnt like you?or he did like you?if she is going out with an ex-bf,shes not worth it.you can find better friends than that.
2006-07-31 11:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ashleigh(: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he the only boy in the world?
if u tell them what she did, u will become like her or even worth
so leave it go and find better friends the world is not so small
here is a choice u say to people how bad she was and all three of u will get hurt and maybe some of ur friends wont trust u any more because u talked behind someone back.
or u keep it or let it go somehow and everybody will be happy
and listen to me u r not destroyed if u where u would be in heaven or even maybe hell :|
2006-07-31 11:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Edvard F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About two or three years ago my bestfriend at the time did something similar to me, me and the guy were having some problems.
Then one day both of them made a plan to get back at me because a misunderstanding with her. After that I stopped talking to her for a long time, we talked for a while then stopped, then started talking again, (its been like that for the past two years). It took awhile for the pain of the betrayal to go away but I still think about it sometimes and I get a funny feeling. I could never trust her again. and thats not the only thing she done to me, but I feel like the better person of the two, me and her dont talk about it, so its like it never happened I dont let, but it did I dont let it take over my life.
Right now we barely started talking again like month ago and shes pregnant (the father is not the same guy) and I feel that she want me in her life, if I take long calling her, she calls me asking if im ok. its all strange but i am ok with it.
I am still trying to put thing in the past, and live the present.
2006-07-31 12:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think u should get it get to u that much... if me and my best friend likes the same guy and she's dateing him now im just real real happy for her cuz there's a lot more of other guys out there
2006-07-31 11:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically liking him is a initiate. yet what precisely is it you like approximately him. how does he deal along with your instructor? is he respectfull? how does he confer with him mom? does he love her? might you opt for for him to talk to you like he talks to his mom and the instructor? is he in charge? those are what fairly make it love once you will discover he's a huge guy at coronary heart.. dont over look the magnitude of those in love. its no longer all approximately kissing him. thats actual no longer significant interior the long-term. working example. how often does your grand mothers and fathers kiss in an afternoon? do they no longer love one yet another? why do they love one yet another and not kiss and hug all day long? in view this is authentic love. granted it took years to construct yet build your top now.... ask your grandparnets for advice on love they have the terrific advice... have confidence me
2016-11-03 10:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He made his choice, move on. Telling people doesn't do anything to help your situation any, it just makes it look like you are pouting. You are making it sound like you owned him and she stole him, people aren't owned and therefore can't be stolen.
2006-07-31 11:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not a good person,she should have never done that,just get over it n move on neither of them is worth it
2006-07-31 13:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by khadeeja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all I would forgive her but I wouldn't forget there's always gonna be another boy who you would like and maybe he didn't feel the same way you did.
2006-07-31 11:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by stephanie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out or ask him if he likes you!just do what u think is best!
2006-07-31 11:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just did tell people!
2006-07-31 11:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by Kel Kel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋