i have a thing where i dont ask the guys...i dont any more at least...i always seemed to get hurt...and now i just dont do anything any more...i love to look at boys (lol) but dont like to get serious...i flirt and do that sorta thing but guys never ask any more...is there a guy code us girls should no about.?
im only 13 but is this anything at all? any guy comments also? is there something u look 4 in any girls?
2006-07-31 11:29:16 · 7 answers · asked by Amy C 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Read a book called "The Rules"... it's targeted for older women, but the overall message of it can be applied in any situation at any age. Guys like to chase girls, it's part of their mentality, and you end the chase when you ask them out. People may disagree with me, but I would say keep flirting... if a guy wants to date you, HE will ask you... and you will know that he truly wants to be with you because HE asked. You don't want to end up in a dead-end relationship because a guy said yes because he was apathetic about it or felt bad saying no. Guys your age are kind of scared of it, but the one that takes the time to ask you out is a keeper. And think of it this way... you may be single, but that's better than being in a bad relationship!
2006-07-31 11:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by ♫ Abby ♫ 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Hard question. There are some things that nobody can give you; confidence being one of them. I can't tell you how to get rid of fear, but i can tell you that the best way to overcome is to do. It's ok to be afraid. It is what you do despite your fear that defines you. Guys love confident women. And although you are not quite a woman, as you grow into one, confidence will get you much farther than doubt. the ability to be confident even in failure will make you almost invincible.
As far as flirting and guys not asking you out, vary your approach. Don't be so available. Make guys think you are WORTH them approaching you.
2006-07-31 11:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if thiers a code i wanna know about it!! and u should ask.
i mean serously its embarrising if u ask some one out and the guy says no but you'll never know if u dont try.and if people start teasing u about it be like well at least i asked which is more than you'll ever do!!
plus if u ask and the guys says no you can start looking for some one else!! and i actually do know what u r going through seeing im 13 too. and u know what?? the first bf i had i got cause i asked him out!!
most guys are to afraid of regection just like u!! so they probably wont ask for the same reason.when ur asking him out try to be causual like hey do u want to do something some time??
dont be like oh my gosh!!i would be soo totally grate ful if u went out with me!! cause itll make the guy think your a wack job!!
im not sayin to ask evry cute guy out but if theres a nice hottie ask him out. you'd be suprised at what could happen!!
2006-07-31 11:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by kagome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if you are 13 don't even worry about these dorks. Seriously at your age you should focus on growing. I am sure you know girls mature faster than boys so you are setting yourself up to be hurt and this will effect how you view relationships later on. I have grown to realize once you act like you don't care that's what gets their interest, be a challeng but don't be a bi**h.
2006-07-31 11:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Ihatemtv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 03:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by wetzel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all about looks im sorry to say! im 17 and its important to every guy, whoever says differently is lying! i think u need a nice guy like me! jk!
2006-07-31 14:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're ugly and I would never go out with a hideous troll like you.
Hope that helps!
2006-07-31 11:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by Nerdly Stud 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋