I just went through a divorce and the judge is making us split everything down the middle, I got one couch, she got the other. I got the dog, she got the cat. We split the assets right down the middle. We split the time with our daughter.
This is all fine and good for me. The problem is, while we were married I got her a breast enhancement. I believe that I am rightfully due rights to one of her breasts. I don't think it's fair that 9 months before the divorce, I had to pay to fix her body up for the next guy to have fun with. I wanted to get a motorcycle but put my dreams on hold so that she could get her chest done.
I don't necessarily want to have the implant removed, just visitation rights on her left breast.
Is there a way to work this into the divorce settlement legally? Should I try to trade her breast for something else? Like more time with my daughter? I just want what I'm entitled to.
2006-07-31 11:28:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just to clear things up, breast implants are a cosmetic thing, not medical thing. If we painted our house and the value went up, I wouldn't only be entitled to the pre-paint value of the home.
And it wasn't a gift. It was as much a gift to me as it was to her. And I even said when she got them done, that if we ever get a divorce that I want half of them. I thought that was funny, now it's not a joke.
2006-07-31 11:42:23 · update #1
Funny...... no, really.
if you are serious, perhaps you could ask for reimbursement for half of the amount. if you have an attorney, ask her/him.
otherwise, keep asking questions. you make me laugh.
2006-08-01 02:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by talking tina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me that there are some issues on how she perceived herself.
Most women I have counseled that have breast issues feel like they are not valuable unless they are big like a model etc.
That may have contributed to the divorce. We as men seem to bypass these things and not put value on them and then woman think we are invaluable to them and then they divorce the husband.
This is so sad because there’s a little girl involved in all of this.
All sides need to step back and look at the bigger picture and the value of the little girl.
There is probably a lot of blame thrown around but this is no time to play the blame game.
Even thought the divorce degree has been done. I think that both of you need to iron all this out in front of a trained pastor.
Their is a little girl involved which I believe both of you love very much.
Now where in this post, I heard about your relationship with G-D or Messiah Yeshua/Jesus, Without G-d in the picture stuff happens.
I know a couple who divorced and got back together. This couple had seven kids, much more issues to deal with that you two.
I do not have all the answers for you but Messiah Yeshua/Jesus does You may want to
forget about the implants and concentrate on the little girl and see if there is reconciliation in one form or another for the little girl’s sake.
I feed 150 street kids most who lost there family and on their own, Life is sad, my team in Philippines sees the sad life. Here I see the sad life here. Please put you little girl above your own need for a motorcycle which can kill you and leave your little girl an orphan.
We have to stop and allow Messiah Yeshua/Jesus the center part of our lives.
My prayers are with you the little girl and her mom
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Thank You for reading.
2006-07-31 20:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You thought my question was boring. Huh it seems as though your IQ needs some work. You seem like a ten year old boy that has no idea how to deal with real life. Try answering questions with thought and gusto instead of criticizing them, because right now i could say a lot more about your questions than you care to hear. And let me tell you if you want to be a good father grow up cause right now with the way your acting you don't deserve half of anything but the garbage she puts out everyday.
2006-08-01 03:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly don't believe that breast implants (technically a medical procedure) would fall under any type of retrobution settlement. Think of it in a different light - if you ex wife had a kidney transplant, do you think you'd be entitled half of to or even want the kidney back?
I think you should save yourself a ton of embarassment and don't bring this up, you will look like an fool. Honestly.
2006-07-31 18:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by sofballinchic12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since community property was used to pay for the implants and she now has an asset (or assets) that cannot be removed from her person, there may be a shot that you may be entilted to more than 50/50 of your community assets because you no longer benefit from the implants. You should consult with a lawyer to see what your rights are.
2006-07-31 19:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything in your divorce was sounding fine until you got to the part of her breast implant. At that point you sound like you are very immature about it. If you are that concerned about it, why didn't you ask the judge about it? And her implant has nothing to do with your daughter either, and if I was your soon to be ex-wife, I would be very upset with you to even think that you would want to compare my breast with our daughter!! You should care more about your daughter than that. In one since of the word, you are using your daughter at this point.
What all has your wife done for you during the time that you were married? What has she given you during the time that you was married?
2006-07-31 18:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are being ridiculous her having her breast done was a gift and you are not entitled to any of this it would be just like if you needed a operation to keep one of your testicles and splitting the asses ts in half is right you are lucky that one person is not getting more so feel lucky to get half because a lot of the time one person gets more than the other either way stop being ridiculous and put down the war for your child because this will affect her if you keep being at war with your ex-wife
2006-07-31 18:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by i love my dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up, besides that you'll just end up brain damaged with a motocycle anyway.
2006-07-31 18:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL
Why? Do you really want them after some new guy rubs his member and shoots his goo all over them?
2006-07-31 18:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by Tyler Durdin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get half the boob job and let me know how that works out for the both of you
2006-07-31 18:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by kalie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋