Do you plan on having children?

Question

Why or why not? If you have children how many do you have, and do you like life better w/ children or without children?

Answer 1

Yes i do, i think its another part of life that helps you grow and come to understand the world, and certain aspects of life... I think yes, they can be annoying and just a plain out C*o*c*k blocker but at the same time, when they are yours, you see potential in them and you see yourself. It's this big, deep mushy thing. It just gives you the type of happiness, nothing else can give you..

Answer 2

Before I start, let me define some terms:

CHILDFREE means you never want children, and are willing to be sterilized.
CHILDLESS means you don’t have children, but want them one day.
BREEDERS are people that have children.

I have never wanted to have children ever. I knew that I didn’t when I was about 13. I had a vasectomy at 22. That was the best $250 I ever spent in my life.

I only date women that don’t want children. In my younger days, women that didn’t want children were few and far between. Today they are common. My current GF is so against having children she can hardly stand to be around them.

Why don’t I want them? Well, I could write a book and never tell you every reason. I guess I mostly don’t want them because I want my freedom. I have asked people whom want them, and I have determined that most breeders are very selfish people.

Some other reasons:

I grew up in poverty. I know all about being poor. I could not bear the responsibility for someone else’s welfare.

My parents made it very clear that I was not wanted. I would not want to put a child trough that.

None of my friends are good parents.

All my friends pay child support, and complain about it.

Answer 3

Yes, we plan to have children. I just don't think right now is a good time. I love children. I am nursery teacher and the children are such cuties. I have my disagreements, but I won't let those get in the way of having children. You can grow and mature after you have children. They can teach you a lot of things, from what you teach yourself. I suppose it can be a hard job, but it would be worth it to do. I love learning from children, and someday I can have my own and learn from them.

Answer 4

I do want to have kids one day. I teach school and I am around kids all the time. I absolutely love them! I have not been blessed enough to find my mr. right yet...I have the worse luck with men! If I have not found him by the time I am 35, I am going to either adopt or have invetro. A big decision to make, but I really don't want to miss out on having the chance to be a mom!

Answer 5

Nooo... I do NOT want children. Why? You ask?

1. Waste of Money
2. Waste of Time
3. Good chance of them growing up to be drug abusers or rapist or murderers or anything of that sort.
4. PUBERTY = 8 Years of HELL
5. No freedom
6. Changing Diapers... Eww..
7. Interrupt you when your luvin' the misses. ^_^

Answer 6

No, i do not plan on having children, my insurance actually pays for voluntary sterilization, so as soon as my doctor will do it i plan on getting "fixed". In general i do not like children, they annoy me and I know i dont want any.

Answer 7

we're planning to have some yes. either we have some or don't it doesn't matter. we hope for some but if it doesn't, it doesn't. the way i see it; if we put to much emphesis on having kids, and none were to be, then we are setting ourselves for depression and negative view of life in general. we'll be happy to have but i doesn't break the deal with us if it doesn't happen. i hope this make sense.

Answer 8

I have two kids that I love to death and I'm happy that I had them when I did cuzz when I'm 42 my youngest will be 18 I will still be able to enjoy life yipee

Answer 9

If I remarry, I wouldn't mind having more kids. I have two now. And I love them very much. I cannot picture my life without them in it.