I am having fantasies about a guy I see on regular basis because, well he is pretty hot. I try not to think about him but then I will have a dream and it starts all over again. I want to stop and yet I don't. I need some kind of tricks or something to help me stop.
2006-07-31 10:52:10 · 12 answers · asked by Grianna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was going through the same issue. I started fantasising about one of my wife's friends. I was confused. I loved my wife dearly but here I was constantly thinking about her friend. Luckily for me I made a resolve not to act on it. And with time the feelings went away. A little breathing and meditation also helped.
2006-07-31 11:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to stop having fantasies. It means you are a normal healthy person. It's acting on those fantasies that will get you into trouble. If you aren't acting on them, then dream away.
2006-07-31 17:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mary J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were created with a "will" to do things. You can stop if you want to. its about just doing it. Our minds enjoy doing things that are against what we are supposed to do. Try thinking on the good qualities of your spouse. Your spouse should be the person making you want him more. So every time you think about this other person, stop and re-channel those thought to how sexy your spouse is and then, give him a call and tell him the hot and steamy details of what you will do to him tonight.
2006-07-31 18:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are just that, a fantasy. when brought to real life, there no longer a fantasy, so yes they can have a impact on a marriage.I f you make your fantasy come true, once true, you will seek another one.and it never ends.
2006-07-31 17:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fantasies doesn't hurt ur marriage if you don't act on it or if you don't tell your spouse that ur fantasying about another man. If ur fantasies leading you to temptation then seek professional help
2006-07-31 17:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by kerik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You human, and it only natural. Now if you act on it, then you have a problem on your hands. Enjoy your fantasy, be proud and happy to be alive.
2006-07-31 17:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by spidermaniii_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are normal... Acting on them is not always normal, tho. In itself, they don't usually take over your life or create a problem. (Just don't tell your significan other!)
2006-07-31 18:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's easy just fantasies about your husband catching you in the act, how would he react, imagine all the pain and suffering for him, then imagine how you loose everything...
this will be like a cold shower for you. if it doesn't work try a cold shower.
2006-07-31 18:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by texraider27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn the fantasy into reality, then it will stop.
2006-07-31 18:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by Married Male 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant stop them till you make them happen so think about it you get laid and stop having those nice wet dreams come on you know you want to just go up to him he will understand and do it real good
2006-07-31 18:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by crazy 4 somethin' real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋