she is only 14
2006-07-31 10:48:41 · 25 answers · asked by gothmother02 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Here is what I always say, "The best way to fix a broken heart is to throw it away and get a new one". This little mantra has gotten 3 of my dearest friends through ugly break ups. I think it's sweet you even care. Just spend time with her, show her there is life after guys.
2006-07-31 10:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well let her know that there is alot of boys our there that she is going to like and some are going to like her let her know that no matter what anyone says she will always brake hearts and some will brake hers so tell her all these feelings she has right now they will go away with in a couple of days and she will see some one else she likes so keep he head up and try not to worry
2006-07-31 17:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by brandnewyear06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she is young and that other guys will be there for her... and that she will find someone more matture then this weisle that broke her heart! tell her that her girl friends ar emore important then anything at her age right now! cause between the ages of 14-18 she will be figuring out who her real friends are and who are just there for the time being! she's to young to be sad over a boy she's wasteing her poor tears! hope she feels better
2006-07-31 17:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ Jenny. I am 17 years old and I just recently got my heart broken for the first time & because of it my Mom & I grew a lot closer because she was just there to listen to me. The best thing my Mom did was tell me about her past heart break experiences. The best thing you can tell your daughter is that "Everything happens for a reason." Just because she is 14 doesnt mean that her heart doesnt hurt because believe me just because we are "young" we still feel horrible. Take her shopping or just try to spend more time w/ her.
2006-07-31 18:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start her off by telling her about your own experiences with men. From first love to now to establish a connection. Then let her talk about it. It is the only way to heal. But be a friend about it, not a mother.
2006-07-31 17:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, im a 14 yr old boy so...id have to say you need to tell her that all of us go through this, cuz our minds are still developing, and we really dont know how to explain our feelings, or the right ways to carry out our actions. true love will come to her, but definetly not at this age.
2006-07-31 17:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by Billy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a teenager and i no if i wuz in that situation i would want my mother to tell me that theres som one for every person and there will always be another who will love u mor than all the rest and he will be your true love. And that he wuz really stupid not to like me and he's missin out on a great person.
2006-07-31 18:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her i was upset over boys at her age, it's awful, but at least when she's about 16 she be laughin her head off at the thought she used to fancy him, not very consoling but very true!!
2006-07-31 17:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by diamonds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just validate her feelings and let her talk to you if she wants and cry it out. Dont say things like your too young or this is just puppy love or anything like that. Try to get her out with her girlfriends. Most of all just validate her feelings.
2006-07-31 17:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a difficult age. She wont want to talk to you about it unless you are close.
Just tell her something similar which happend in your life at that age. relate to her that way, she may open up but it has to be if she wants to, don't force her to talk if she doesn't want to, just let her know your there for her when she's ready.
2006-07-31 17:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋