i have zero friends......... seriously. nobody likes me because of how annoying i was last year but now high school is starting and i have seriously changed... SERIOUSLY. i dont have any friends tho!!!!!!!! what is the best way to make friends?? online i have a myspace so i could talk to other people but i dont know what to say.. please please help me!!!!!!!!! GREATLY appericiated!!
2006-07-31 10:32:16 · 11 answers · asked by peace 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
DON'T use myspace to make friends...even if you truely know them in real life. Myspace is a waste of time and keeps people socially messed up. If you are on myspace all day, how will you prove to people that you have changed? It won't work. What I suggest is that you go face to face with these people and pretty much say "Hey. Look, I know I was a little annoying last year but I'm different now. Give me a chance, and I won't fail you." People will pay attention if you have the courage to actually explain yourself. They will probably give you another chance. Get together with people at your high school but calling them, emailing or IMing them. Or wait until school starts again and go up to them to talk with them. Stay calm and don't get weird with them, or they will never give you a chance. Stay cool and easy going, and be really patient if people don't believe you've changed. Just relax and wait...people will start talking to you.
Also, if you don't want to try to get in touch with old friends, try making new ones. Go around your school and get to know EVERYBODY. Just hang out and talk to people. Chances are that you will make new buddies. And slowly you will have a wonderful reputation with everybody at your school, as long as you stay easy going and nice to EVERYBODY. You will make friends!
And once again, myspace and other computer "friend resources" do not and will never work. They are a waste of time if you are trying to find real lasting friendships with people. I hope I've helped you out!
2006-07-31 10:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by Misscheerios2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, believe it or not, things get easier in high school because there are sooo much more people from with all kinds of personalities. You don't live in a world of whiny little kids anymore, you are growing up now. I remember when I was started high school two years ago, that I was with all of my junior high school friends, but I met new people, and now I am only around one friend from junior high, and I've got a lot of friends ever since high school started.
2006-07-31 10:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well high school is way different from grade school and jr high ! it's a more matture thing! so dont be annoying be matture but funny... there will be plenty of new people in high school that you will me... you might not be included in the big crowd but that doesn't matter as long as you have friends...
-you should join a sport or an after school activity! i met alot of my friend by doing that! i hope i could help! if you need anymore advice you can email me LILhermes8711@yahoo.com
2006-07-31 10:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it is to not have friends...I moved right before high school started to another state and it was hard. I was shy so i didn't join any clubs or did anythingi didn't have any friends my freshman year but then i joined colorguard before my sophomore year and now i have tons of friends because the team made me feel comfortable with other people because i was having fun
...my advice to you is do the opposite of me such as start converstions with other people, join clubs that sound like you will have a lot of fun!, join sports if you're atheltic, just have fun!
2006-07-31 10:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by girlzrule1221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have seriously changed, when you start school, people will notice. You will meet new people and you will have many friends. Just don't panic.
2006-07-31 10:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well by the paragraph that u wrote u still sound kinda annoying. but not all hope is lost just be yourself hun and ull have plenty of great friends.
2006-07-31 10:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you're goin into high school not that many people know u so u can start all over. don't meet people online. i mean, thats kool too. but meeting people in person is much better. you are welcome to email me though. i'll be your friend.
2006-07-31 10:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by Life Is Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try handing out cash to people who hang around you.
2006-07-31 10:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by Reverand Ray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to start over...there will be different people there so try to find someone who likes you for who you are...not for who you WERE.
Hope all turns out ok.
2006-07-31 10:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by ♥iL0VEV0llEYBAll♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get involved in clubs that center around your interests, and you'll meet new people who have things in common with you. good luck.
2006-07-31 10:35:36 · answer #10 · answered by nobodyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋